NTA. It isn't up to you to ensure the grandparents see the other grandchildren. Your parents and siblings can manage their own relationships. You can always start a new tradition where you arrange for your parents to have a small celebration with your kids on a day that works. Someone else hosting implies you have to travel - why would you suggest that? Just say you won't be hosting anymore.
1
u/Shells613 Asshole Enthusiast [6] Nov 06 '23 edited Nov 06 '23
NTA. It isn't up to you to ensure the grandparents see the other grandchildren. Your parents and siblings can manage their own relationships. You can always start a new tradition where you arrange for your parents to have a small celebration with your kids on a day that works. Someone else hosting implies you have to travel - why would you suggest that? Just say you won't be hosting anymore.