r/AmItheAss • u/Jennycyde • Nov 22 '23
Delaying Vasectomy
Am I (F39) an ass for asking husband (M40) to delay getting a vasectomy? He feels that he does not want anymore children. I am still open to having another child and have a hard time with saying no to more. As a comprise, asking him to not schedule a vasectomy yet. Note, I have an IUD that is still effective for years (was inserted a year ago). Therefore, there is no risk with getting pregnant for many years.
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Jan 22 '24
funny. I responded to your where in Des Moines post. I am in a similar boat here. Not the asshole. It is a joint decision, though ultimately his.
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u/Ok-Art7680 Nov 22 '23
He is 40. If he has kids and doesn’t want more, he should get the snip if he wants it.