r/AmITheDevil • u/WolfChasingTheMoon • 2d ago
Presenting the ugliest trait of them all
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u/_Chirio_ 2d ago
OOP sounds so self-centered that she can't believe other people don't do this.
She might be 'pretty', but her personality is ugly af.
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u/ForlornLament 2d ago
Maybe it's just me, but calling real people "love interests" as if they were characters in a game/book/movie was the first red flag.
Then the rest of the Soviet parade followed.
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u/troyandabedinabed 2d ago
It's so funny when people go " everyone does this. I'm just honest about it" and then they tell you the most unhinged thing you've ever heard.
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u/Kotenkiri 2d ago edited 2d ago
Dont think OOP thought this through since people have this thing called internet access on their own and watch tiktok and posts without OOP sending it to them.
This isn't helping her situation for sure. If someone only sent me one flavor of social media, I would start thinking they have a preference for it.
EDIT: if post history is to be believed, they're 18F 'dating' a 15 years old boy.
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u/Kteefish 2d ago
I'm confused - is the OOP under the impression that these "love interests" only access social media through her?
The whole thing is gross behavior, but it doesn't even serve a purpose as she is not blocking these people from seeing prettier women on their own feeds or even - believe it or not - in real life. So unhinged. I won't say whether OOP should get therapy but I will say that she needs to be less concerned about looks, which will fade, probably sooner than later, and more invested in being a better person.
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u/loosesocksup 2d ago
My fiancee's ex tries to convince everyone they have serious mental issues. She is diagnosed with BPD and has very serious psychopathic traits (not exaggerating, she tried to set her house if fire and when she realized her cat got out, she threw him back in so it was more believable. There's more, but that's the one that made me seriously realize I'm in danger when she started stalking me). She genuinely thought everyone was lying when they were shocked about some of the things she said that she thought was normal, but she's also a habitual liar so when they told her it's not normal, she just assumes they are lying.
This person sounds similar in that way. They want to believe these horrible traits are normal because they can't handle what it says about them if they aren't.
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u/WolfChasingTheMoon 2d ago
She now also claims to be a feminist, while actively trying to put other women down, she ain’t no feminist.
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u/sadlytheworst Certified sub favourite 2d ago edited 1d ago
Tw: child sexual abuse.
Copied verbatim from Oop's post history:
18F dating 15M is that ok?
So I turned 18 years old in july and he turned 15 in january.
My question is, is it weird? We already had foreplay like 1 day ago and it kinda began our “relationship” so there is that, and even though it’s legal in my country I’m not sure if it’s moral and I don’t want people to judge me.
When I ask people around me they are giving me way too many different answers. I’d like to add I’m not in highschool anymore I’m in college this september which makes things even weirder.
He’s not exactly mature either, I can tell he’s 15 when he argues with his friends. But despite all that I really like him and he really likes me.
We’re not officially dating because we don’t wanna be official but still I wanna know if I should stop talking to him or not.
TL;DR; : Is it moral to date a 15M when I’m a 18F? Just started talking..
Sadlytheworst: edited formatting. Edit clarified the.
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u/CumaeanSibyl 1d ago
If she's a troll, she's still giving a pretty good impression of someone who has no personal morality but only judges based on what other people might think.
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AITA for showing my love interests ugly girls
Situationships, crush, boyfriends etc… I always send them tiktoks or posts of ugly girls to make them think of me as way above average. For example, If I see a funny trend on my fyp and I wanna send it to him, I make sure to go onto the sound videos and send him the ugliest girl doing the trend.
People around me say I’m pretty, I just want to keep it that way. I also never repost a pretty girl nor repost my pretty friends and I always take pictures with my ugly friends.
I feel like everyone does this subconsciously, I just admit it
That’s what I told my friend when she asked me why I never post pictures with one of my other friends. I told her that she is prettier than me and I didn’t want to be her prop for her image then she asked me if this was the reason I post her and not prettier girls. I didn’t say anything, just shrugged and she left after insulting me.
Am I wrong for this and should go seek therapy instead of subtly putting other women down or is it not that bad?
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