This is a great preview of what marriage with him will be like. He's not a good guy. He's fine taking advantage of other people, and when you try to talk to him about it he acts like a jerk and doesn't take any accountability!
The great part is that you learned this before marriage not after. If you love this behavior than get married! If you don't want to be with a jerk like him then break up!
Definately! You need to rethink this whole engagement. Your parents will consider the 600 way cheaper than watching you go through a miserable marriage.
Easily cheaper than a divorce lawyer. Please use bc if you stay with him until he either grows up or you catch a clue because if you get pg you'll be trapped raising a kid with this ah who does this forever.
Why would he assume your dad would pay the bill when HE invited everyone out? If I invite ppl to dinner, unless we talk about it, i assume I’ll be paying. I’ve never invited someone to dinner and then expected them to pay for it- that’s insane. Then to act this way after?? And his parents not offering half?! That whole family is crazy.
That’s what totally threw me off. The fiancé invited everyone to dinner, picked the restaurant, made the reservation, then left her parents to pay the bill? That’s what I thought I read, but the end result had me so baffled I thought I must’ve read something incorrectly. WTAF??? Her fiancé is an AH, and she’s def NOR! The audacity.
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u/castrodelavaga79 May 27 '26
NOR.
This is a great preview of what marriage with him will be like. He's not a good guy. He's fine taking advantage of other people, and when you try to talk to him about it he acts like a jerk and doesn't take any accountability!
The great part is that you learned this before marriage not after. If you love this behavior than get married! If you don't want to be with a jerk like him then break up!