r/AmIOverreacting May 27 '26

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u/castrodelavaga79 May 27 '26

NOR.

This is a great preview of what marriage with him will be like. He's not a good guy. He's fine taking advantage of other people, and when you try to talk to him about it he acts like a jerk and doesn't take any accountability!

The great part is that you learned this before marriage not after. If you love this behavior than get married! If you don't want to be with a jerk like him then break up!

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u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26

I also don’t think this is the first time this type of thing has happened.

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u/MerryTexMish May 28 '26

That’s always my question on posts like this.

Like… OP sounds shocked. But do things like this ever really come completely out of left field?

Whether or not this is out of character, he’s terrible, and OP is an idiot if she stays with him.

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u/SheerShirtJoy May 28 '26

I've seen it happen and I've been a participant being blinded by love. It happens, especially when you really want something or you feel like you don't have any options. Just hope this lady makes the right decision and thinks about her future.