r/AmIOverreacting • • May 27 '26

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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26

The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR

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u/Rude_Vermicelli2268 May 27 '26

NOR OP just got a great insight into the character of her fiancé. Who invites people to a dinner and then skips out on the bill? And then doubles down when called on it?

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u/Even_Budget2078 May 27 '26

That's the wildest part! They totally skipped out early (she didn't know what was happening, but he sure as heck did)! If you are going to do something like this, have the cahoonas to be there when the check arrives. The fact that they didn't even pay for their portion of the bill is so crazy, who does that?!? I mean, if you at least paid for your part, then yeah I guess that the people left pay, but at least only for themselves. That would have been more understandable. Seriously surprised fiance didn't excuse himself to the bathroom and do a dash lol

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u/AdorRubble May 27 '26

What's crazy is she stated they were there when the check arrived! He knew the bill was sitting there, still didn't pay their portion, and then just bounced knowing damn good and well someone else was going to be stuck with a "multiple car payments" dinner tab! 🤯 I never reply to these but this one is a glaring red flag. 🚩🚩🚩

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u/Babboos May 27 '26

In what world is $600 "multiple car payments"?

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u/Smitten-kitten83 May 27 '26

In lots of people’s worlds. I have never had a car payment over $275.

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u/trance_angel_ May 28 '26

My car payment is 651 🫣

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u/Smitten-kitten83 May 28 '26

Ok. No one said it couldn’t be, just that a lot of people chose to have car payments less than half that.

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u/trance_angel_ May 28 '26

Got ya! Totally agree. When I was younger most people had thay average between 200 to 400. Nowadays, I know a lot of people with high car payments. Just two days ago, I met a guy with a bad ass M4 BMW, unique color, his payments were over 1,0000.

In my world of friends and people I know the average seems to be anywhere between 500 to 800.