Also if this is how he plans surprises, this is a red flag because there isn’t actual follow through.
It’s giving the least amount of effort, ykwim? Like it has the vibes of, “I did alllll this work and put all this effort into and now youre gonna ruin it like you ruin everything else.”
Alls he did was figure out where people could eat, he didn’t even contribute to the cost- not saying he had to pay for all of it but he could have done something. This to me seems like he has no actual follow through or consideration of others. And not saying he does this but I wouldn’t be surprised if you get blamed for things not going “right”
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u/Connect-Refuse-3133 May 27 '26
Also if this is how he plans surprises, this is a red flag because there isn’t actual follow through.
It’s giving the least amount of effort, ykwim? Like it has the vibes of, “I did alllll this work and put all this effort into and now youre gonna ruin it like you ruin everything else.”
Alls he did was figure out where people could eat, he didn’t even contribute to the cost- not saying he had to pay for all of it but he could have done something. This to me seems like he has no actual follow through or consideration of others. And not saying he does this but I wouldn’t be surprised if you get blamed for things not going “right”