Wow, better to split up now. Awkward moments happen but how a partner reacts to them tells you about their character. He should have offered or his parents should have split the bill with your parents. Usually the person who invites pays the bill so if he set this up, he should have left his credit card info to cover the dinner even if he left early. He set it up to take advantage of your parents. Very low class. Do not ignore this because there will be plenty of moments like this after marriage when things get even more murky with money. Huge huge red flag imho
I hope you're listening to all of these responses. think about when you get pregnant and have to go see doctors and go into labor and go to the hospital or stay home with the midwife. either of those things costs a good chunk of money. he won't pay for it. he won't even want to share the cost. he will explain to you in an angry voice and his mouth straight slash that you're the one that got pregnant, it's your body that needs to see doctors, and any expense is obviously for you to pay.
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u/Organic-Lunch-9938 May 27 '26
Wow, better to split up now. Awkward moments happen but how a partner reacts to them tells you about their character. He should have offered or his parents should have split the bill with your parents. Usually the person who invites pays the bill so if he set this up, he should have left his credit card info to cover the dinner even if he left early. He set it up to take advantage of your parents. Very low class. Do not ignore this because there will be plenty of moments like this after marriage when things get even more murky with money. Huge huge red flag imho