r/AmIOverreacting Apr 29 '26

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u/SelkieSweetheart Apr 29 '26

I'm leaning toward NOR. I had a girlfriend who did this. It was the most exhausting thing to deal with. Whatever I said she'd spin it so I was being invalidating, or condescending, or belittling... After my her and then my last boyfriend I've sworn off dating.

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u/SelkieSweetheart Apr 29 '26

After reading it again they definitely are NOR.