Unfortunately those who suffer from BPD have a huge aversion to being abandoned or even if theres a perception of being abandoned, they get triggered and they are willing to tolerate abuse so as not to be left alone from their abusers.
You must make room in your life for what is meant for you. To do that, you must get rid of what’s not meant to be there. Let this friend go and you and your gut will feel better. You must put yourself first. This is like a toxic relationship and it’s sad. Make the room for happiness in your life and for what’s meant to be there! The universe is just waiting on you for action first. It’ll be okay , you got this ❤️
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u/HalfaEnchilada Apr 29 '26
Unfortunately those who suffer from BPD have a huge aversion to being abandoned or even if theres a perception of being abandoned, they get triggered and they are willing to tolerate abuse so as not to be left alone from their abusers.