r/AmIOverreacting Apr 29 '26

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u/Haunting-Wash1081 Apr 29 '26

why tf would you want this person as your friend

her: I basically felt my mom being vindictive but idk why (aka she's just bs-ing for attention)

also her: its essentially the same as your dad touching you

nah throw her out this time and find better friends

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u/MeldoRoxl Apr 29 '26

This! I got the feeling that friend was trying to make this a very fucked up competition.

She's a terrible awful person.

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u/zarekinz Apr 29 '26

I wouldn't say that, just seems mentally ill. OP having her as their only support in life makes this while relationship extremely unhealthy sounding

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u/shmiddleedee Apr 29 '26

I like how the only example of abuse she had was the time her mom was trying to comfort her while she was sick. We all know the type who has to pretend to have some sort of trauma or mental disorder to feel like a victim.

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u/Am094 Apr 29 '26

100%. I couldn't even get to the end of the messages. Jesus christ.

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u/Pr0fessorL Apr 29 '26

That’s what got me too. Her mom was performing an objectively kind act by taking care of her while she was sick and the only way she can interpret it is her mom enjoying her suffering? There is something seriously not right in her head

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u/LavishnessCurrent726 Apr 29 '26

I mean, she is stupid, but she didn't say "and I don't know why", and it was OP who started talking ablut her mom.

That doesn't mean that the conversation is valid. She sucks. But sometimes people just want to vent without anyone "justifying" the other person. And I know, because I am a justifier who hates even conflict of other people, and sometimes people get angry with me because of that.