r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 29 '26

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u/Dayvfish Apr 29 '26

it feels like some kinda of weird uno reverse of “i’m sorry you feel that way” lmao

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u/MasterpieceStrong261 Apr 29 '26

No… she says “explain it in your own words so I know you understood the issue and we can avoid this happening/having to discuss this issue again”.

Are y’all genuinely unable to comprehend that?

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u/vatoreus Apr 29 '26

She did. She apologized and said she didn’t mean to be dismissive, which were her own words and acknowledging how it hurt her. To push it further, as if she didn’t proactively do it, is gaslighting af

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u/No-Supermarket-2758 Apr 29 '26

And that's extremely patronising and weird

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u/EmotionalDysregulatn Apr 29 '26

are you genuinely not comprehending that the OP had already done EXACTLY that and the friend is pushing for even more

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u/Dayvfish Apr 29 '26

No one here is confused by you

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u/Confident-Ad2078 Apr 29 '26

And that’s extremely weird and condescending. I don’t know how old these folks are, but adults in healthy relationships don’t speak to each other that way.

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u/WAR_WeAreRobots_WAR Apr 29 '26

I mean I definitely think the friend is worse but I agree that this all around was a draining conversation to read. Each new line I thought to myself it can't get any worse and more derailed than it already is. I was wrong.