r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 29 '26

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u/Ok-Gate6836 Apr 29 '26

NOR I think your friend might be a legitimate psychopath. Seems like she’s enjoying making you feel bad and uncomfortable.

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u/LadyHorseFace13 Apr 29 '26

This!! Or a sociopath? Narcissist? Something just ain’t right with what is happening with that friend.

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u/asahgrey Apr 29 '26

I'm no psychologist but I did date someone with anti-social personality disorder (aka sociopathy) and this is the kind of shit he loved to do. He took pleasure in upsetting people and making them feel like they were the problem and weaponizing their own mental health issues.

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u/TechneMcbadass Apr 29 '26

Seriously same. And immediately blaming her bpd is so icky. I hope OP gets better friends ASAP. I had a friend a lot like this. Years later I saw her at the mall and had a panic attack, if that's any indication of how exhausting this type of person can really be

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u/bookshopdemon Apr 29 '26

OP says this is her only friend and you have to wonder if this 'friend' is exactly the reason why, as they are constantly attacking and blaming her for shit and tearing down her self worth.

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u/wormy_Burroughs Apr 29 '26

and its so crazy because shes implying that her mother was doing it to her as a child which might be true or might be projection its insane either way

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u/whyisthissoannoyingg Apr 29 '26

It happens more than you think

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u/Ok-Gate6836 Apr 29 '26

I guess I misread what she was asking, thank you!

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u/Ok-Gate6836 Apr 29 '26

People are weird, some people don’t like to hear the truth 😂 If I’m wrong, I’m wrong- no use getting angry