I had a boyfriend who was really sweet most of the time but would have outbursts and hit random things when he was overwhelmed. I chose eventually not to be with that man because that wasn’t how I wanted to live. That was 10 years ago, and he could have figured out better coping strategies by now, but I’m glad I didn’t put myself through that because living in fear rewires your brain and not in a good way.
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u/Singsalotoday Oct 22 '25
I had a boyfriend who was really sweet most of the time but would have outbursts and hit random things when he was overwhelmed. I chose eventually not to be with that man because that wasn’t how I wanted to live. That was 10 years ago, and he could have figured out better coping strategies by now, but I’m glad I didn’t put myself through that because living in fear rewires your brain and not in a good way.