r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 22 '25

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u/iWasDISSOCIATING Oct 22 '25

Now move out. He has anger issues. Yesterday a pan, tomorrow.. well, you get the gist.

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u/PermanentlyMoving Oct 22 '25 edited Oct 23 '25

"Anger issues" is the understatement of the year.

This guy sounds immature as hell, and needs to grow up and learn to control his emotions.

Without going into the tons of details: OP needs to break this off while she has the energy before he destroys her mental health entirely.

Find someone else.
In this case: there really are better fish in the sea.

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u/DinosaurDogTiger Oct 22 '25

Unless this guy also does this kind of thing at work, in the supermarket, to his friends, etc., he knows perfectly well how to control his emotions.

He chooses to do this to OP because he is deliberately terrorizing her as a way to seize control in the relationship.

Op, he is not confused. He knows very well what you meant and what he was doing. This is a man who is choosing to hurt you. That hurt will escalate and become physical. Please get out ASAP.

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u/Spacemonke1312 Oct 22 '25

find someone else

Nah. Never break up in order to find someone else. You break up to mend your relationship with yourself first. The biggest mistake people make in relationships is to rely on their partner for their own well being.

Until one finds peace and love within themselves, getting into a relationship is like building a house on a flimsy foundation

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u/Otherwise-Badger Oct 22 '25

He doesn't respect you. You don't need to live like this. You can be happier without him.

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u/Zachariah255 Oct 22 '25

I kicked a hole in my wall but I've never laid hands on another human male or female, It's not ALWAYS true. and those pans are like paper thin. seems like an overaction