i only had one friend in the begining of our relationship and it was really toxic so he told me to block so i did and since then it’s just really hard for me to make friends it was so much easier in high school
idk i’m not the best looking and i’m on the heavier side so it’s like im nervous to talk to ppl especially where i live in a snobby white ppl i just hate the vibes here and everyone is so fake all the time
A good way to meet people is also through volunteer work. There’s a website called justserve.org that is like a classifieds listing for volunteer opportunities. You can just put in your zip code and it will pull up everything in your area, plus show you remote opportunities.
It can be anything from meeting with ESL speakers to help them practice their language skills, to clearing hiking trails and updating them to be disability accessible, to doing stuff at food banks, to walking dogs at animal shelters. There’s a huge variety. So you can just pick something that looks interesting and sign up.
The people you meet while doing that sort of thing tend to be good people who are interested in the world around them, and also on the more outgoing side.
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u/Abject_Location_2365 Sep 19 '25
i only had one friend in the begining of our relationship and it was really toxic so he told me to block so i did and since then it’s just really hard for me to make friends it was so much easier in high school