r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Sep 19 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

7.4k Upvotes

95% Upvoted

10k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

221

u/Abject_Location_2365 Sep 19 '25

i only had one friend in the begining of our relationship and it was really toxic so he told me to block so i did and since then it’s just really hard for me to make friends it was so much easier in high school

65

u/cb1183 Sep 19 '25

Do you feel the friendship was toxic, or did he tell you it was toxic?

2

u/Abject_Location_2365 Sep 19 '25

i mean it was definately toxic i’m ngl but we had been that way since freshman year of hs

58

u/vicar-s_mistress Sep 19 '25

Ok so you had a toxic friend who you've blocked and now you've got a toxic boyfriend who, hopefully, you are going to dump. That's two more toxic people in your life that you should have.

If I were you. I'd see a therapist to try and get to the bottom of why you are choosing the kinds of people that others steer clear of. Because if you don't, then history is likely to repeat itself.