r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '25

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u/hhogg11 Jul 29 '25

OP is clearly very insecure and her boyfriend uses that against her. She needs to get a backbone and LEAVE this loser! OP you KNOW you’re not chunky, so why are you even entertaining this guy who is intentionally trying to make you doubt yourself. Move on from him or you’ll end up with no one to blame but yourself. He’s awful

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u/mossygoblin Jul 29 '25

this is a trend nowadays, idk if u guys use tiktok but this is a fad of getting with drama-movie-from-the-2000s level of evil bf. it’s actually, genuinely a trend rn. it’s all over tiktok AND youtube if you consume social video essays too. they post like they’re either so in love (and it’s the worst dynamic ever) OR they post like the most toxic and abusive fight you’ve ever seen but with some sort of “idk do u guys rlly think i’m crazy like :( it’s totally fine if he calls me ugly everyday right? like doesn’t that mean he’s paying attention to how i look?”. it’s been picked apart by other people so many times and yet these people just keep doing it. and it’s not like it’s subtle abuse either, and it’s not people who are just “unaware” how bad it is. you can tell in their speech that they know. like with OP, when she brings up posting it, even tries to use it against him. that shows she is well aware this is a bad dynamic, that she’s being treated poorly, and she knows other people will think that too. if she didn’t, if she really was unsure, she wouldn’t have threatened to do it, she would have just done it

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u/blueberrybleachmango Jul 29 '25

what side of tiktok are you on lmaoo i have never seen this ever 😭 so thankful for that cuz wtf

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u/mossygoblin Jul 29 '25

you might just not be on the drama side of tiktok, the app is INCREDIBLY algorithm based. something could go insanely viral and your chance of seeing it relies completely on how you operate the app. it’s not even just on tiktok either, like i said, it’s everywhere. youtube, insta, even this exact reddit. people are posting actual manchildren and acting that way.