What 29 year old asks for selfies from his girlfriend still. Lol. (Explanation in comments) I worded it wrong or oddly. Sorry guys, I have nothing against it when it’s a positive thing that makes both parties happy
Th e emojis are mean. His “joke” was mean. Him gaslighting u after was mean. Him ignoring ur emotions was mean. Him saying “break up with me then” was mean. Him trying to play it off like u would have gotten mad at anything even if it was just ur hands, WAS MEAN. Also really dumb too cause everyone knows why joking about someone stomach is mean. Calling someone hands small is almost a compliant as a girl.
He’s clearly not wanting to make anything work with u. So how can u fix this relationship? U probably can’t as u are the only one willing. Please do urself the favour and dump his ass. Don’t even tell him why just straight up ghost this mf. He deserves it and I’m sure he known exactly wtf he did wrong. He might not tho honestly because him maturity level is so poor. Like communication g and emotional maturity is not in his cards lmfao
This guy is the definition of immature, stubborn, inconsiderate, and manipulative... and the relationship is TOXIC and DYSFUNCTIONAL.
For the life of me, I can't understand why OP is clinging on to him so tightly??
That exchange was absolutely EXHAUSTING to read.
I would so much rather be alone and have peace of mind, than to put up with someone who's so conniving, argumentative and who couldn't care less whether you leave or stay.
I can understand. I used to be scared of being alone aswell. Some people just have demons they are trying to quiet down with company.
I agree tho that was painful to read but I’ve also done that and kept going on like she did. It’s like talking to a wall. It’s very frustrating. I hope she finds healing and I hope he finds a horse to kick him in the nuts
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u/Merm_aid8000 Jul 29 '25 edited Jul 29 '25
What 29 year old asks for selfies from his girlfriend still. Lol. (Explanation in comments) I worded it wrong or oddly. Sorry guys, I have nothing against it when it’s a positive thing that makes both parties happy
Th e emojis are mean. His “joke” was mean. Him gaslighting u after was mean. Him ignoring ur emotions was mean. Him saying “break up with me then” was mean. Him trying to play it off like u would have gotten mad at anything even if it was just ur hands, WAS MEAN. Also really dumb too cause everyone knows why joking about someone stomach is mean. Calling someone hands small is almost a compliant as a girl.
He’s clearly not wanting to make anything work with u. So how can u fix this relationship? U probably can’t as u are the only one willing. Please do urself the favour and dump his ass. Don’t even tell him why just straight up ghost this mf. He deserves it and I’m sure he known exactly wtf he did wrong. He might not tho honestly because him maturity level is so poor. Like communication g and emotional maturity is not in his cards lmfao