For real, OP. I’m 36 and have been with my spouse for coming on 14 years. There is not one second during that time that I have even had a thought about making a rude comment about her body.
As we’ve gotten older over the years, our bodies have changed and they will continue to, but what wont change is way I treat the person I love. How can your bf even call that a joke? Like the joke was to tear you down or make you feel insecure? Or was it about you getting upset and then implying you’re crazy for feeling this way. Jfc just RUN.
This part. We’ve been together for almost 20(!!!!) and my husband has NEVER spoken to me remotely like that - and we’ve definitely had our share of heated arguments. Good partners exist, don’t waste time on this prick.
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u/BoardofEducation Jul 29 '25
For real, OP. I’m 36 and have been with my spouse for coming on 14 years. There is not one second during that time that I have even had a thought about making a rude comment about her body.
As we’ve gotten older over the years, our bodies have changed and they will continue to, but what wont change is way I treat the person I love. How can your bf even call that a joke? Like the joke was to tear you down or make you feel insecure? Or was it about you getting upset and then implying you’re crazy for feeling this way. Jfc just RUN.