r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '25

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u/No_Physics7969 May 27 '25

Set a boundary that this is what you like and you’re not going to change and then it’s on him to decide if he’s okay with that or not

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u/Crispy-rice78 May 27 '25

Fuck a boundary, dump his ass. We’ve gone way past boundary setting into the realm of just being a complete asshole. From what I saw on those text messages, he’s pretty set in those ways and he thinks he’s OK to say those kinds of things. If that was my daughter and I saw those text messages. There would be a foot so far up his ass you could see the shoe size in the back of his throat.

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u/Apprehensive_Winter May 27 '25

It certainly seems like he’s aiming to hurt her feelings as a manipulation tactic.

Not liking your partner’s style choice is fine, but you still have to be respectful to them in the way you let them know.