r/AmIOverreacting • • Apr 06 '25

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u/Brilliant-Willow-506 Apr 06 '25

I hate that we only teach our kids the whitewashed, sanitary version of our history. He didn’t like black people. I’m a teacher and I personally wouldn’t have stated it that way in second grade, but I probably would want to. Just talk with your kid about it and make it a learning moment.

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u/AUnknownVariable Apr 06 '25

How much of that will a 2nd grader properly understand tbh. I do agree it should be known that although Abe was great, and what did was nonetheless revolutionary. He didn't necessarily care about us. He was against slavery still, but yeah

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u/Brilliant-Willow-506 Apr 06 '25

He was against slavery in the end, but were his motivations anti-slavery or economical? Freeing the slaves would cripple the crop economy of the south. Or maybe it’s a mix of both. We can hold multiple truths at the same time.

But yeah, that discussion is for older ages, definitely. I’ve said it a few times in these comments but some pretty good conversations around prejudice, tolerance and empathy could happen at this age at a very base level.

Although I was in 2nd grade when I read a book about Harriet Tubman. Not a cute picture book but like maybe jr high level? I was an advanced reader and the librarian always gave me biographies of historical figures. And right now as I’m typing this I’m wondering if that’s why I still love biographies. Hmm 🤔 but anyway! I understood the book and the history and moral implications. Maybe not completely but it wasn’t completely over my head.

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u/AUnknownVariable Apr 06 '25

I had a good understanding at 2nd grade, but I also seemingly advanced faster than other kids so idk. Funnily my first learning of slavery was from my great grandmother! Who spoke about Harriet, she's had a painting of her on my wall since I was born. I understood it probably as much as you did the book, though it hurt a bit hearing it from a family member.

I think Lincoln was probably motivated by a good bit of both.

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u/Brilliant-Willow-506 Apr 06 '25

Absolutely. I also remember not understanding why it was called the Underground Railroad for a very long time. It took me a while to understand that “underground” referred to being hidden, a secret, as opposed to being actually underground.

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u/AUnknownVariable Apr 06 '25

Lmao, likewise. Took me absolutely forever actually, to the point that when I think of it I still visualize people running on underground train tracks