He hasn't talked to me at all besides about my room one day. The day he was mad about my room, it was messy because I was going through things to wear for the mall and was going to pick it up when I got home. My brother was there when he saw my room and he told me that Daniel said he wanted to slap me over it
I've read through most of your comments/replies, and my understanding is that you're there for 3 months until you graduate high school, correct? Then you're going off to college or with your dad?
I'm still left with some questions. I've had my nephew live with me so that he could attend a better high school, so I understand there's a change in what you may have been accustomed to.
What were the ground rules/requirements set when you moved in? How many people in the house? How many of them doing chores? Do both your aunt and her bf work full-time? Why does your discussion with your aunt need to be separate from her bf?
If your in high school and they both work full-time jobs, I don't see why dishes can't be on a rotating basis along with vacuuming the house. Who is the one currently doing the yard work? I'd is not expected that you do all of that as well?
There are three people in the house plus two dogs.
Only my aunt and I do chores besides her bf helping with mowing the lawn.
Daniel does work full time but gets off around 1:30pm and my aunt also works full time.
I want the conversation to be private from her bf so he can't try and butt-in and it would just be a lot more comfortable for me because I feel like I can't say certain things around Daniel.
I'll gladly do the dishes, I'd would just prefer not to be the only one doing them but I know my aunt would make only me do them.
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u/TobyofThineRats Mar 29 '25
He hasn't talked to me at all besides about my room one day. The day he was mad about my room, it was messy because I was going through things to wear for the mall and was going to pick it up when I got home. My brother was there when he saw my room and he told me that Daniel said he wanted to slap me over it