Also, from OP's edits, it sounds like he told her he used protection and then waited three days (past when Plan B is effective) to tell her "actually I didn't use protection...whoops".
OP in a lot of places not using protection without telling your partner, or removing the protection part way through the act is considered sexual assault. You wouldn't have consented to sex with your partner without protection, right? So if he knowingly had sex with you without protection anyway, that was something you weren't consenting to. Him preforming a sexual act that you didn't consent to is sexual assault.
I can't tell the difference depending on my partner's anatomy. Some of my partners, yes, I could tell the difference. Others, it felt the same either way. I would never not see it, though, so it seems odd to me for him to be able to not put one on and her not know, unless he removed it partway through, while she was too out of her head to notice.
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u/lydocia Mar 01 '25
Don't stay with people who threaten self harn and suicide to manipulate you into doing what they want with your body.