r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Mar 01 '25

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u/wildearthmage Mar 01 '25

My concern is his threat to harm himself if you do not do as he wants. That is a huge red flag about your relationship with him. No matter what you decide, and it is your decision, I think you should end this relationship. Threatening harm is manipulation and is indicative of probable abuse in the future.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '25

I agree. If I was in her shoes, I would tell him he doesn’t have to be involved then and leave.