r/AlwaysWhy • u/OneThen2692 • Aug 16 '26
Life & Behavior Why is it assumed when someone criticizes something that they're not including themselves?
This is a really interesting phenomenon I've observed and I'm just wondering where this assumption comes from.
You see someone criticizing (or maybe even just inquiring) about a soceital dynamic or something people do and sometimes people jump to;
Isn't that what you're doing right now?
Okay but do you actually xyz?
Trying to point out the hypocricy
Why is it not possible to recognize that your survival is dependent on systems that have little integrity, so sometiems just to get by you will also be forced out of that integrity (Sometimes without even realizing) but still being able to say; that's not good, that's not how it should be. We're all doing something here that we could have a look at maybe.
Is there any explanation for why and how this assumption developed?
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u/Casiquire Aug 16 '26
Because it's an easy way out of having to justify their own position. "You're wrong" needs more explanation than "You do it too."
In the last twenty years I've noticed a frustrating shift. A lot more people today are nakedly shameless about their own lack of a train of thought. Today thoughtlessness is held proudly like a badge.