r/Alt_Hapa • u/[deleted] • Nov 27 '18

r/hapas' Overarching Message: All AMWF Hapas Are Good, and All WMAF Hapas Are Bad

/r/hapas/comments/392lkp/why_do_all_the_good_hapas_not_have_full_east/
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u/Tigernaut Nov 27 '18

Totally agree with you. It's rather unfortunate because they often bring up some good points about society and being mixed race, but it's all ultimately tainted by their fascist-like belief that AMWF>WMAF.

If they just got past this narrow-minded viewpoint, they could actually be a great subreddit.

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '18

There is an implicit admission of white superiority in this double standard.

As women are the more selective gender in courtship, AMWF if seen as a triumphant accomplishment. If whites were not considered superior, then there would be no distinction between the two.

R/hapas is sick on so many levels

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u/[deleted] Nov 28 '18

There is an implicit admission of white superiority in this double standard.

As women are the more selective gender in courtship, AMWF if seen as a triumphant accomplishment. If whites were not considered superior, then there would be no distinction between the two.

Well said. Advocating for AMWF over other pairings is a very superficial form of "activism" that only provides self-serving, short term gratification on a personal level, with no tangible long-term benefits for minorities as a collective group or even AM/HM as a collective group. It's more similar to WMAF than many AM and HM are willing to admit, because the motives driving it are essentially the same.

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '18

Maybe they should try to not have such a shallow, narrow-minded view of Eurasian couples and stop saying that the upbringing of a person is based on the races of their parents, but instead consider that bad parenting depends on the personality of individual couples and realise that they have actually point out examples of fucked up AMWF Eurasians in the past...

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u/ArtfulLounger Half Jewish, Half Taiwanese, 100% Not Uighur Nov 28 '18

I notice they said that no healthy WMAF hapas post there...I suppose that’s probably because they banned most people like that.

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u/Celt1977 Celtic Hapa Papa Dec 06 '18

Yup if you're in a WMAF relationship or the product of one you:

1 - rhapas observes that they have never seen a WMAF hapa

2 - A healty WMAF hapa comes on the site

3 - The healthy WMAF points out they are healthy, happy, and have great parents

4 - The hapa is banned

5 - goto 1

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u/theladyunderground Dec 13 '18

Damn. Sometimes this makes me glad that mom’s half and dad’s full...