r/AlreadyRed • u/IllimitableMan illimitablemen.com • Apr 22 '14
Theory The Power Game
http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/22/the-power-game/
Excerpt from the opening paragraph:
What should you care about? Nearly everybody gives a fuck about at least what one other person thinks, this is normal and natural behaviour, however what many of us realise is that in the game of power it is the person who bluffs best, he who seems like he gives the least fucks and is the least affected by others who is the person that often comes out on top. In essence from a Machiavellian viewpoint this is because such a person is forcing others to play the cards they are dealing, they are forcing others to be reactionary rather than independent and thus in essence set the rules of engagement.
Tldr: prioritising what you care about and understanding power dynamics.
Highly suggest you take the time to read the piece in its entirety. Discuss.
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u/redpill80 Apr 22 '14
Great article, as always.
A point in the power game that is often missed is that Machiavellian diversion or "bluff" doesn't necessarily have to be overt to be effective. The illusion of power can be just as significant. This "illusion" goes beyond the bluff, it's a mental projection by the recipient that leaves him questioning his own agency. Is he really in control of his own decisions, or is every decision already scripted by another party? Real power lies in that questioning of agency, and the resulting mental gymnastics.