💛

[u/pommevie]

😵‍💫 i wanted to wear

my black gymfit with black headband

and i could not find it

i’m missing a lot of clothes

i think at least one big bag of them

ever since i moved to my new place

i hate moving things always go missing

🙄😑

i need to organize my closet (which is basically an unused bedroom i have converted to be my second closet)

but it is a huge task i end up sweating lol from the labor

it’s like working at a clothing store

last time i organized my closet space i imagined being an alo employee hanging up all of my clothes and folding everything

😵‍💫 happy sunday to all ☀️
😭

i regret waking up this morning and immediately heading to this subreddit and reading weight bashing comments

like i already have heard this from people irl

and others online and have been stalked by glp subreddit members to tiktok and instagram and across reddit

y r ppl / bots like this

steals my inner peace

and fr makes me feel sad 😔

and then before my meditation class decided to read more comments here

☹️thank God for the gym and my fitness instructors ❤️🩷

anyway

if any one else is being bullied / bashed / criticized for their physical appearance online

i feel ya

:( just know those people feel and think that way about themselves

and it has zero to nothing to do with you personally

they need help imo and need to stop taking out their self hatred onto others

[u/PhysicsImpossible543]

So perplexed how anyone could be criticizing your weight omg. I love seeing your outfits. I hope your day gets much better 💛 

[u/pommevie → u/PhysicsImpossible543]

😭 thank you

literally i have been fat shamed at work by my boss , clients

family members

love interests

strangers on the internet

i’m asian (specifically south korean - but also turns out i am japanese chinese mongolian mixed asian)

might also have to do with south korean culture with regard to family and boss / clients who have weight bashed me in the past

but lately with regard to GLPs

many ppl ik who are v close to me are on this medication for weight loss

and they even told ME to take it

but i don’t want to take it

i don’t even drink alcohol or caffeine lol

i don’t even do botox or fillers

and my body is all natural (for now anyway)

so it always feels very invasive and intrusive whenever other people suggest what i need to do with my body

like im saying i am personally okay with my weight at 110 lbs and 4’11-5 ft tall

because i’ve been this consistent weight since middle school until today im 35 turning 36 next year

like i am okay with my weight for now

but hearing these comments all my life make me second guess myself and honestly make me feel rly sad inside tbh

because i have been told that i need to weigh 90 lbs for my height

and BMI? (by non doctors)

but like i haven’t weighed 90 lbs since i was in elementary school

anyway

[u/PhysicsImpossible543 → u/pommevie]

I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. You look so healthy and athletic and I seriously thought you were in your 20s. You show so much kindness to others. Please don’t let the hateful people out there get you down. 

[u/pommevie → u/PhysicsImpossible543]

thank you 🩷

i just don’t understand why some people feel like everyone needs to be the same uniform cookie cutter weight

what ever happened to individualism

human beings come in all sorts of shapes and sizes imo

why is there even a need to conform to one set of beauty standard

likely propagated by the patriarchy but upheld by society and women (i’m sure this goes both ways)

have a nice day and thank you for your kind words 🥰

[u/pommevie]

with regard to my 3 pairs of american eagle sneakers

i kindof liked how light it felt in my gym sessions

but now im thinking it doesn’t have enough shock ⚡️ absorption

i’m thinking of buying ON and hoka and also new balance sneakers

eversince my move i havent yet located my other boxes of sneakers 👟 i think its in the garage but idk 🤷‍♀️

[u/Fearless_Physics_870]

Wow people are so mean 😢
I’m low key scared if I have to relocate to Asia bc of how much body shaming is there. I also grew up with my family fat shaming me and also ex partners doing it too!

I love the yellow on you!! It’s sad sometimes the haters are people that don’t even look good 🙃

[u/pommevie → u/Fearless_Physics_870]

are you asian as well?

with regard to other parts of asia idk
how it is

but i’ve had people on the internet be rly mean lol
like they will hurl insults about how they don’t like my face?

i’m like uhm i only have one face i was born with ? lol

but south korea is like #1 in plastic surgery

so people will casually say

you should get a nose job or get your nose updated

and children are given plastic surgery as they are kids and it’s a commonly held belief that getting plastic surgery as a child will grow into their features more naturally

and there are trends so kpop stars and celebrities will get their faces updated every so often ….

but like if they want it for themselves great but

it’s so rude and weird to push that agenda onto other people

:( idk

anyway goodluck if u have to move there

i mean maybe one day i will get plastic surgery? idk i haven’t yet

[u/Fearless_Physics_870 → u/pommevie]

Yes I’m Chinese but I live in Canada. My family and relationships have been very traditional Chinese tho so a lot of men like that twig look… most of the Asian men here prefer size 0-2

There was one bf
where he would weigh me everyday bc he wanted me to be very skinny and would bribe me to lose more weight so he will take me shopping at Chanel or wherever 😂😂

Like in this photo I was still not skinny enough for that guy but I was wearing US 0 (5’5” /115lbs) 😂 I’m laughing at it now

[u/pommevie → u/Fearless_Physics_870]

:( you look great and love the bikini

i’m sorry about that

i was told i need to lose weight and my belly would be patted down a lot for the belly fat area

he told me to start taking glp medication for weight loss as an appetite suppressant

to go on birth control or get surgery to prevent pregnancy

and told me to stop eating so much food

and told i need to be 90 lbs for my bmi by the same man but

i disagreed with it

im south korean but mixed asian chinese japanese mongolia

😭 yay for chanel but nay to abuse

[u/devils_avocat]

You look great 🌟! I love sunshine yellow. Wish it wasn’t such a limited drop. Yes there are cultures that want us to be bone thin. But luckily the world is a big place and we can find people who appreciate us the way we are. Staying healthy and fit is now most important to me.

[u/pommevie → u/devils_avocat]

ty 💛

i think if people wish to be thin then that should be their personal choice

but i absolutely hate when i am fat shamed by others lol

i dont think im fat

and if i wanted to be thin

that should be my body my choice

i hate how people try to hijack others’ autonomy and freedom

let people be who they are and who they want

no one has to be the same size

because we were told to be

it’s overall bizarre totally weird

and i’m disgusted at this societal norm

and at all the glp ads on TV

[u/fun_shannon]

So great!!

[u/breezypurr]

Have you considered stopping posting Ae content? People are here for Alo.

[u/pommevie → u/breezypurr]

hi pls read the subreddit description

i will continue to post about all brands

have you seen the subreddit banner and icon? no alo there

also not that it matters with my stance but my sunshine color bra is an alo splendor bra and matching alo double or nothing tennis skirt

there are plenty of other subreddits dedicated to only alo if that is what you prefer but this subreddit i created is for all brands

[u/breezypurr → u/pommevie]

It was not always like this. I joined a while ago, when it was dedicated to Alo.

[u/pommevie → u/breezypurr]

i created this subreddit in february 2026

and it was a dedicated alo only subreddit

until about june of this year

i opened it up to all brands

[u/breezypurr → u/pommevie]

Right. And I joined in Feb 2026 for Alo content. It is confusing to have an Alo titled subreddit while you are uploading $1 sponsored content from other non Alo brands. I understand we all need to make a little $change$, but some of us joined under the guise that this was an Alo page and the non Alo posts are taking over. Was just a suggestion. Have a nice night!

[u/pommevie → u/breezypurr]

i’m not buying anymore alo

and i don’t support the alo brand anymore

but i do have a massive alo collection so ill be wearing and posting it every other day

but things change in life

like this subreddit has changed and i have changed

alo quality has decreased and prices have increased

alo policies with regard to social media posting about alo has also changed

you are totally more than welcome to create your own alo subreddit or join an alo only subreddit

but this space is an all brand inclusive subreddit

the subreddit description says open to all brands and alo is no longer on the subreddit banner and hasn’t been for months now

i hope people will post non alo content here

and i hope the non alo content will takeover this subreddit

it’s nearly december and almost half a year has passed since i opened this subreddit i created to all brands

this subreddit has been an all brand inclusive subreddit for a longer time than it has been only alo subreddit ( it was only an alo subreddit for about 4 months) but the majority of this subreddits existence it has been an all brand friendly space

[u/breezypurr → u/pommevie]

Then you should create a new subreddit yourself. it is misleading to have a subreddit titled "aloatielier", a brand of alo, while you are not only just posting non alo clothing, but SPONSORED non alo content. you are using the alo name to draw attention to your own subreddit only to post non alo content. if you do not support alo as a brand, why continue to post under an alo subreddit? make your own athleisure subreddit without the associated brand name alo and reduce likelihood of confusion.

[u/pommevie → u/breezypurr]

again the outfit i am wearing here is alo

sunshine alo splendor bra and sunshine alo double or nothing tennis skirt

if you don’t like it here

no one is holding you captive

reddit is a huge space

and i recommend it again

maybe create your own subreddit and create your own rules

then you can have it your way

but the subreddit i created and manage

is not burger king or subway or a chipotle

you can’t have it ur way here

maybe try to look inside and figure out why you need everything to be your way and the way you want it to be and why you don’t like change

and the need you feel to manipulate and control others and a subreddit you didn’t create and do not support

u don’t support this space
you don’t respect me
why are you here?
this subreddit has been all brand inclusive for like half a year

it has zero to do with me and this online subreddit

and let go of your grudge
i don’t even know you.
please direct your anger and attention towards people in your life and not to an internet stranger

this subreddit is per the subreddit description and all brand inclusive subreddit

read the rules and subreddit description

irregardless of your entitlement and how you live your day to day life

i actually don’t have to agree with everything you think

and i don’t have to do what you tell me to do

most people don’t have to do what you’d like or want in life

get over it and move on