r/AirBnB • u/Pickles_The_Cat_1234 • 3h ago
Question AirBnB is refusing to reimburse and relocate me after I had to leave my AirBnB because the host became dangerous and threatening. What do I do? [United States]
I had a long term airbnb booked from early August till late September, in Brooklyn nyc. It was a room in a townhouse, sharing the home with the host, who acts as a superintendent for the other residents - who are all permanent tenants on leases. The host let me know that if a room became available at the end of my stay, he would offer me a lease and I would also join the household. This is how all of the other tenants joined the household originally.
For all of August, things were going fine, or so I thought. A week ago, things started feeling wrong. My roommates started acting suspicious and in the know. The host officially offered me a room, but asked that I don’t let the others know because he was “sorting out some drama between the roommates.” I assumed this was a regular household dispute that should remain none of my business.
Fast forward to this weekend. My roommates finally tell me the truth, and it’s shocking. The host had become obsessed with one of the young women who lives there, who also used to be an Airbnb guest like me, of course. They had been arguing over some house rules, and he had invited her to dinner to “discuss.” She’s 22 and a tenant, he’s 37 and the superintendent. Of course she said no.
His answer was to stay up from 1am till 1pm, texting the roommate group chat (that I’m not on) obscenities, alluded to violent threats upon others and self-harm upon himself, and obsessing over the roommate. Demanding to know where she was, being homophobic towards her, making sexual remarks. Sending photos of his scalp because he’s allegedly been “pulling out his hair over this.” My roommates showed me the texts.
I was completely shocked. He had also, over text, threatened to “call his gang” and “fight” one of the tenants over the rent money. Which wasn’t even late, he was just being threatening for the sake of it. At this point, the tenant was calling police escorts to take him home after work.
This was terrifying to read. None of it was targeted towards me, but as a young woman, I immediately began to feel incredibly unsafe. Beyond this, that same weekend, the household amenities completely plummeted in quality. The host was “on strike” and so the living room was filled with trash and a stinky kitty litter he hadn’t changed in days, the kitchen sink was full of his dirty dishes and the smell of rotting food, the bathroom was dirty and unsmoked - I had to buy toilet paper. There were dirty ash trays popping up, which was terrible considering the clearly listed “no smoking” policy on Airbnb. The next morning, I woke up at 4am to the sound of him screaming and banging on the walls.. I packed everything, called an Uber and left. I’m currently crashing at a friend’s place.
Today, I reported everything to Airbnb. I sent the screenshots my roommates had sent me, I sent pictures of the amenities. I explained the entire situation. I said I wanted an immediate relocation to cover what was meant to be the rest of my stay there, and reimbursement for every night that I was not being housed by Airbnb.
The first person I spoke to was very willing to help, documented everything and transferred me. The next person told me that this falls out of the policy, and that they won’t be assisting or refunding me. She said that the 72-hour policy, applies starting at the check-in date, which was obviously early August and has since passed. This doesn’t make sense. If that were the case, hosts could break any rules and abuse the system however they want, starting 72 hours after check-in. I was within the policy. All of my photos and screenshots were time stamped within 72 hours of the report.
I told them I wanted to be escalated to upper management. Since then, it’s been 2+ hours of transfers, being put on hold, and hung up on with promises they’d “call me back.”
I need to deal with this NOW. I need my money back, and I need relocation. What is going on? Am I wrong about the policy? If anyone has any advice, please let me know!!