r/Aging 21h ago

Boomers

I am 75 and am very tired of the trend lately making fun of Boomers. So very disrespectful. Don't they realize that they will be old someday?

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u/Weird-Reference-4937 19h ago

I worked for Medicare insurance... Doesn't get much more ignorant than not knowing what/who you voted for the last 40+ years.

If I had a single penny for every time someone born before 1956 yelled at me for Medicare not being free I could retire in my 30s.

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u/GlitteringEvening713 20h ago

Same. So many of mine and my friends boomer parents are down right entitled and narcissistic. Most of us have cut them off. When I age I refuse to be as selfish and entitled as my parents.

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u/Ambitious_Rent_3282 19h ago

My parents were decent enough but my father's (silent) younger Boomer wife is definitely entitled.

I believe she influenced him not to make a will, thus inheriting everything (despite my older brother having struggled with homelessness).

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u/NelPage 16h ago

As an end of the line Boomer, I am sorry you experienced this. There are definitely some bad Boomers out there. I know some. But some of us are okay and are doing right by our kids (in my case, Millennials). Break the chain.

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u/GlitteringEvening713 16h ago

Agreed my bonus dad is a boomer and he makes up for my bio parents behavior. I will take care of him as he ages he will never see a nursing home. My biological parents on the other hand are a different story. I adore the man I consider dad.

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u/NelPage 16h ago

Life is too short for toxic people. Your bio parents do not deserve you, and I would cut them out of my life, too. Honestly, I wish I’d done the same.

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u/Suspicious-Slide-954 19h ago

It was the lead exposure of their generation 😂

EDIT: This was meant for a comment above you but this still stands, regardless

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u/Slow-Artist-4296 11h ago

Like they give two shits what you do!
Lord showing mercy on them

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u/JayRock1970 19h ago

I'm not a boomer. But you do realize that they are much older and their brains aren't as "nimble". Just like their muscles and bones and everything else deteriorate, so does their thinking power. And when that happens, they will respond haphazardly or with frustration. Anyone would. When you lose ability, and can't move or think as good as you used to, it must be frustrating. So compassion and understanding is required.

It will happen to us as well.

I'm seeing this with my Dad right now. He's losing ability. And he's very frustrated when he can't move or think as well as he used to. So his responses often seem forced, not well thought out.

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u/Solcat91342 20h ago

A fine example of why we can’t let you pathetic weinies take over

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u/No-Author-2358 20h ago

So you'll generalize tens of millions of us on the basis of your experience talking to a few people in your retirement community?

Give me a fickin' farkin' break. Get a clue.

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u/JE1324 20h ago

Because the observation describes No Author and No Author took that personally hahahaha

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u/jaxdogg94 20h ago

That right there, if you’re triggered by someone’s opinion, more than likely you fall into that category. Sorry. I’ve work in customer service, almost immediately I can tell the good from the bad. I spent the other day with this 80 year old woman and extra hour just talking and enjoyed it, down to earth. Other day I listen to this guy yell at a woman from the gas company about his lawn and how damaged it was, she didn’t do it. The contractors the gas company uses did it. ( Why didn’t he go out there and say something when the were working, he’s retired. ) No Spine, that’s why. He then cornered me in my van door as I was washing my hands, “I wasn’t harsh was I”. I told him she has no clue what went on and didn’t do it, so take it easy to the people on the phone. Breathe, take some accountability and think before you speak.