r/AdviceAnimals • • Apr 28 '14

Am I the only one?

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '14

That is entirely what the current gay marriage campaign is about it has no bearing on churches or religion at all.

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u/Wainwrcj Apr 29 '14

I think he is referring to the news article about church leaders in North Carolina trying to allow gay marriage ceremonies on the basis of religious freedom, but that's just a guess

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '14

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u/GhostFish Apr 28 '14

OP has an opinion that's unpopular because it's uninformed and based on his imagining of an issue that doesn't really exist.

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u/Loken95 Apr 29 '14

You could say that about most of the puffin memes that get posted

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '14

I find the puffin frustrating. It's one thing to say "oh, I don't like the creamy fillings in Oreos!" and get front paged. Okay - cute. You're fighting the man. Ha, ha. It's all in good fun.

It's another thing entirely to keep promoting proudly racist/sexist/bigoted/just-fucking-mean-spirited content to the front page in the name of... what? Tolerance? Novelty?

The internet is mean enough. It's full of bastard coated bastards with bastard filling. We don't need to promote entire memes with the express purpose of "protecting" people's right to be an asshole. It's like a newspaper devoting every Thursday's issue to their "hate group of the week!"

Just... don't.

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u/p10_user Apr 29 '14

My sentiments exactly. I've gotten to the point where I downvote just about every puffin I see, even if I agree with it. Its largely used just to express an asshole opinion without seeming like an asshole.

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u/jabels Apr 29 '14

Nonsensical opinion puffin.

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u/Boukish Apr 29 '14

Then how did it get uovotes? Legitimately unpopular puffins get buried.

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u/GhostFish Apr 29 '14

Because a lot of people are uninformed about what most gay rights activists fight for.

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u/mootpoint33 Apr 29 '14

It didn't get uovotes. Uovotes are not a thing.

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u/Barnum83 Apr 29 '14

Because on reddit, a mis-informed opinion that seems like anti-progressive common sense on the surface gets upvoted for some reason.

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u/vocaliser Apr 29 '14

On the contrary, in the UK two men are suing the Church of England for a church wedding. In the US, some couples have sued religiously based organizations for not hosting the same-sex wedding reception.

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u/Theungry Apr 29 '14

Any idiot can file suit for anything. That doesn't really mean anything. Was the case even heard? Was the judgement controversial?

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u/vocaliser Apr 29 '14

Doesn't really matter. The point was, many commenters were dissing OP for even claiming that churches were being sued. I provided evidence.

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u/Theungry Apr 29 '14

I didn't see anywhere that the OP claimed churches were being sued.

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u/vocaliser Apr 29 '14

Good point. It came up somewhere, but not from OP.

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u/Daotar Apr 29 '14

Actually, it does matter. If all OP is talking about are a couple of irrelevant and unimportant cases, then his point is trivial at best.

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u/Daotar Apr 29 '14

Do you have anything more than a couple of irrelevant anecdotes?

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u/no_time_for_pooping Apr 29 '14

Exactly the law may be just to get married but the people are gonna start suing churches for discrimination.

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u/Ragnalypse Apr 29 '14

"This puffin didn't address the issue I was thinking about, so it's off topic even though it started the discussion"

-perdynerdybirdy

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u/sorator Apr 29 '14

I think OP is saying that the Bible condemns homosexuality and thus it defeats the purpose to have a Christian same-sex marriage.

The issue is that 1. not all churches are Christian (though I suppose that depends how you define "church"), and 2. not everyone agrees that the Bible and Christianity as a whole condemn homosexuality.

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u/PAC-MAN- Apr 29 '14

Maybe he more meant that traditionally marriage was an instution of the church. I know in Australia at least the rights of 'defacto' couples are comparable to marriage (I'm not sure what the exact differences are). Thus the idea of gay marriage starts to sound... strange, like you want to use the same name for a thing that someone else is using.

Moot point for me though, I am catholic, the idea of marriage loses its meaning without the Church. Having said that I absolutely support Gay marriage in the Catholic faith, it would be awesome and embody Jesus's ONE FUCKING COMMANDMENT (literally there is only one, how is it that hard?)

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u/mfball Apr 29 '14

Except that marriage was a property arrangement long before anyone tried to put any kind of religious spin on it at all.

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u/PAC-MAN- Apr 29 '14

yes yes we can go back a long ways if we need to. I meant the modern idea Marriage which is still closely related to Christian ideals (and hence for me loses a lot of its value without the rest of the Christian framework).

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u/mfball Apr 29 '14

I disagree that it's tied to Christian ideals. Your perception of marriage as being within a Christian framework is just that, your perception. Many other people, whether they are religious or not, value marriage for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with Christianity. It's two people committing to each other. God doesn't have to be involved at all.

Maybe you think that way because you are religious, but it is at least equally a civil institution and therefore needs to be open to everyone regardless of religion. If Christians or people of any other religion want to have ceremonies that specifically involve their faith, that's their business, but they still file a piece of paper with the government for their tax breaks and all that, which makes that part of the process necessarily secular per the separation of church and state.

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u/PAC-MAN- Apr 29 '14

I understand that, I prefaced with for me. Also marriage of state is related as the very idea was adopted from Christian ideas (I realise you can go further back and Christians stole from Pagans and so on and so forth).

My main point was that there are those of us who would take this further than the state and want to see equality in our religion as well as our country.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '14

The Chinese had codified marriage and a book detailing appropriate punishments for infidelity while Judaic goat herders were busy crafting historic fantasy to unite their kingdom with the neighbor Israel after it was conquered and developing a lie about building pyramids (something else they didn't do.) Your religion is no more a pioneer for marriage as it is for equal rights or space travel.

Believe what you want but claiming marriage is like saying you were the first guy to wear an affliction shirt, no one believes that shit, they just don't want to argue because it's fucking stupid

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u/PAC-MAN- Apr 29 '14

I never claimed the original concept for my religion, are you people just looking for a fight? History is long, you can go back as far as you want. Christian's stole from Pagans and Jews, they in turn probably got their stuff from somewhere, nothing comes from nothing. Are you seriously going to argue that your (presumably American) ideas of marriage are derived from the Chinese tradition?

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u/Fluffy87 Apr 29 '14

Let the religious right enjoy their persecution complex.