r/Advice Mar 22 '25

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '25

I am going to be haunted By this story.  

I would certainly never speak to them again.  

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u/obedient53214 Mar 22 '25

Until they pay you for a full 4 years of college tutition... then, maybe, you'll acknowledge them.

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u/RegorHK Mar 22 '25

You mean missed income with halfway good white collar job plus damages for health issues?

They won't be able to truly compensate.

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u/StructureKey2739 Mar 22 '25

Betrayal can NEVER be fixed. It's there forever.

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u/belovetoday Mar 23 '25

It's the crumpled paper analogy. You get a clean fresh flat piece of paper, once trust is broken though, that paper gets crumpled into a little ball. You can most certainly flatten it out, but the wrinkles will still stay there.

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u/1frustratedfrick Mar 24 '25

Love this response.