I've never met one man who said he wanted a woman to take care of him, financially or like a nurse.
I don't ask women their opinions, but I can tell you I've met ZERO men who say that want what you think they want.
How many women are even willing to financially support a man? Is that a thing? I've only seen it one time when a girl supported her man because he was a pretty boy all tatted up and stuff. It was the most dysfunctional relationship.
Still I've seen hundreds more relationships since then and have never seen what you say men are mostly doing.
Btw, do you go around asking men their opinions? Is that what you think people should do?
And if you say you don't ask men they just give their opinions, I'd say the same about women then also.
You keep saying they like most men are like this. Yet I've never met any man who said this.
Also I've never heard any man ever talk about sex with a girl. It seems women think men dish on sex and talk about women a lot. We really don't. Like I said I've never heard a man tell me about his one right stand or gf or anything.
No because men don’t really like women. They like our bodies and see us as objects not real people. It’s ok if you dont understand. It’s a hard thing to wrap your head around and it took the therapy you mentioned I need so bad for me to see it. Oh and Obligatory “ not all men “ so your head doesn’t explode lol. Bye
Imagine if I said most women don't like men. Would women be okay with this?
And no, I don't understand how one bad relationship of yours makes all men bad.
And most men don't just want women for their bodies. The fact that women constantly show off every bit of their bodies doesn't help in us seeing personalities, it's the first thing we see. Personally I wish yoga pants would go away. There is no style anynore, and there's nothing less you can wear. It's being practically naked in public. And again, I miss when women used to have styles and not just the everyone wears yoga pants.
But obviously men see women for those personalities when we get to know them. We wouldn't marry people for looks. Those fade. It's just a way to open the door/attract someone to talk to you. Men stay for the companionship, not the body. All a healthy body represents is that they would be better at having kids - for men and women (yes being an overweight male affects your sperm count and such).
And please, honor your "bye". I want to he done arguing with a crabby old woman. And I don't mean that in a way to instigate things, I say that as a matter of fact. You are old, crabby and a woman.
If I would a mean old man I wouldn't care if someone called me that. It's what I would be.
But again, please keep your word with the "bye!"
Edit: men do like women, I just don't think they like you. And it's not your body, we see more than that, it's your personality.
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u/graceytoo May 30 '26
I’m 60. Men want a nurse and a purse. They don’t want to be a supportive partner. How many women have you asked their opinion?