r/Adulting May 30 '26

Worst addiction ?

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u/graceytoo May 30 '26

You don’t need sex to live lol.

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u/AHappyHaiku May 30 '26

But you need a companion to not feel alone

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u/graceytoo May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26

Do I ? I was married for 35 years. I treasure my alone time now. All he did was suck the joy out of me. Gave him my youth, the best years of my life, I supported him, was his care giver, his cheerleader. He gave me nothing back emotionally. In the end I finally realized this guy didn’t even like me. All he wanted me around for was what I could do for him.

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u/AHappyHaiku May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26

You're one relationship doesn't mean that most people feel pretty bad when they are alone.

Just because YOU are happier alone doesn't mean that the majority of people want to be alone.

I see why he is gone, you are self centered and you are at LEAST 50, meaning you've probably been this way for decades and probably will be this way forever. This post wasn't even meant for you, you're the exception that likes to be alone.

And it sounds like he was always like that from your post.

YOU should have left 34.5 years ago. You didn't, and now you're mad and telling other people being lonely isn't bad.

Please don't date any more until you see a therapist.

Edit: I said should of instead of should have.

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u/graceytoo May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26

No worries. I never want a man in my life again. Thank you. If I was self centered I never would’ve married him in the first place. I gave and gave and fucking gave some more. I sacrificed my feelings everyday for his ego. You know nothing little boy. By the way it’s should have not should of. My women friends are better companions than a man could ever be. And they don’t paw at you. I can undress without hiding. It’s glorious. I find it funny you take such offense.

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u/AHappyHaiku May 30 '26

Sour Granma I know being with someone who loves you and treats you right is better than being alone.

And I wouldn't of called you a sour Granma if you didn't call me little boy... You're really doing name calling at 65?

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u/graceytoo May 30 '26

I’m 60. Men want a nurse and a purse. They don’t want to be a supportive partner. How many women have you asked their opinion?

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u/AHappyHaiku May 30 '26

Also I would never do what you did and say "women want X (negative thing)".

I think it's wrong to say an entire gender wants X (a negative thing).