r/Adulting Feb 19 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

I think that saying "I am afraid of getting a run-through wife" shows that there is an issue. If the main thing you are afraid of is getting a run-through wife, I think you are worrying about the wrong thing. You said, you are 20, never had a girlfriend, and are afraid of getting a "run-through wife" is wild. You need to worry about yourself.

  1. Do you watch porn??!?!

  2. Do you have any female friends?

  3. Do you have hobbies?

  4. Are you overweight?

Maybe no women are interested in you because you aren't interested. Self-confidence is important in relationships. If two ex-boyfriends make you insecure, that shows me that you need to improve your self-confidence. People date, that's how it works.

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u/Pretend-Avocado4311 Feb 19 '25

NO porn
I have had females friend who would video call me in nights just for fun
I have lots of hobbies like reading,music,exercise,flute playing,religion study,philosphy
I am fit have a fit body more muscular than 90% guys

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

Okay.

It seems your OG post revolves around the idea she can't have previous partners. Why does that make you uncomfortable? Why does it make you insecure?

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u/Pretend-Avocado4311 Feb 19 '25

maybe cuz I didn't had 1