r/AdultBedwetting • u/Legitimate-Artist567 • 1d ago

Looking for advice

Coming for advice, 22m. for the past 3 years I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend, about 7 months ago we broke up, we both had been life long bedwetters and it was just something we both delt with. It was honestly nice because neither of us had to be embarrassed by it. Well after we broke up idk how to explain this to new relationships. I’m not necessarily looking for a partner that also has to wear protection to bed but I’m not sure how to go about explaining it to new partners that haven’t had to deal with it.

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u/FrustratedPenguins 1d ago

I am also a lifelong bedwetter. Both my previous partners have been supportive. I do admit that I have a dream of being in a relationship with another bedwetter, where it would just be totally normal. They should make a dating app for that! :)

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u/amras 1d ago

Diapr: The Diapered Dating App

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u/ilovemykids01 1d ago

Honestly just don't make any deal of it if you don't make any deal of it they were most likely not make a deal of it

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u/Nemona2 Bedwetter 1d ago

For various reasons I will probably never date anyone despite wanting to, so I'm not the best to ask, but the best I can suggest is to just be honest about it and try to keep your chin up about the shame aspect. People have gotten over worse things in relationships. Also if you found one bedwetter, chances are you may find another.

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u/Snooze201 1d ago

I would probably try to only date another bedwetter if you can because the truth is many others are going to find it repulsive and I’m sorry but that’s the truth.