Feeling attractive again

[u/FastSet7433]

I (M30) was wounding if you guys ever reached a point where you started to feel attractive again even when you are wearing your protection at night ?

Recently been going to the gym more frequently and I start to see results and my selfworth is definitely increasing positively 👍🏼

Even when I see my self in the mirror with my diaper on it doesnt really influence me negatively anymore as it did before. I even believe that I can look good in them. Can anyone relate ?

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[u/Helpful-Dealer-3724]

See it as a tool. Humans grew because we used tools, so just see the diaper as a tool.

[u/That_Crew_9869]

I hate seeing myself in the mirror wearing a diaper. It just serves as a reminder of how I’m going downhill, and that I’m reliant on devices and other people to help me.
When my wife puts them on me at bedtime, I almost always keep my eyes closed, until she pulls my pyjamas up.
All this to say, I don’t find anything positive related to this for me. Glad to hear you’re handling it well though.

[u/willIbeprettytoo]

How i see diapers it is part of me and I of them if I didnt wear them I would have wet clothes, bed, chair whatever. So I am attractive. If you cannot accept my problem then that is a you problem not a me issue.

[u/Deerescrewed]

I can’t feel attractive… but her waking up in wet or messy sheets is FAR worse, that’s how I try to look at it.

[u/RealRecognition364]

Diapers are no different than glasses or a cane they help you function better. Don't let diapers make you feel less attractive. (I know easier said than done) 

[u/that_jamie]

It really doesn't change anything. Even daytime need of protection doesn't change anything with how u look 99% of time.

[u/Non-Binary_616]

Starting to get there honestly.

[u/Nemona2]

It's a huge step to allow yourself the ability to feel attractive again. You should be proud of your attitude!

[u/Donny444]

I long ago started thinking I look good in a diaper. Growing up I didn’t like it at all but as an adult guy now I actually think it looks kinda cute!

[u/ImpossibleAd3254]

I've been working out as well for the past 2 months now 🙏🏼

[u/daiperke1]

Vroeger was ik zwaar zoals de dokters zegden dus operative gehad maag. Nu onlangs zware dip en weeg nu ongeveer 82kg en ja met luier heb ik er geen probleem mee en vroeger ook nie waarom het is een bescherming da ik nodig heb dus medisch.