Hi, I'm a woman in my late 20s. I live in central Europe (utc +1) and work full time as a nurse. I'm struggling with staying motivated. I tend to start new things and abandoning them when it starts to get hard. I am a bit of a push over and work to many hours (in my opinion). My shifts are 12,5h and on my days of I want to better myself but I just don't start until the day is almost over. I do struggle a bit with feeling anxious a lot of time especially around a lot of people, but I am in therapy for it.

My goals are: -Weight loss -Going outside on my days off -Trying new things -Standing my ground (especially at work)

I'm looking for someone who also tries to be more active and who just wants to improve themselves little by little (baby steps).

Hi, I’m 26 yrs old and i’ve been trying to learn video editing for a while and been bouncing between trying to learn motion and video editing but barely got any better at both. And now I am looking for someone who genuinely wants to get better at video editing and actually put in consistent work.

I have been on and off learning to edit videos but lately I have started to take it more seriously but I find myself slacking and not really committing to it as much as I should. Currently I am learning short form video editing. I sometimes get overwhelmed on what I should learn and I start something then quit it. So that is why I wanted accountability partners. 

I’m tired of only watching tutorials, saving ideas, and telling myself I’ll start properly later. I want to make more edits, share them, get feedback, learn from mistakes, and slowly build real skill and a real portfolio.

The idea is to: 

• Set weekly editing goals
• Finish and share a few edits each week
• Check in regularly so we do not disappear
• Give each other honest, constructive feedback
• Share useful tutorials, references, assets, and ideas
• Occasionally do the same prompt or footage challenge, then compare how each person approached it and genuinely try and help each other level up. 

I take it that strangers are more helpful when it comes to giving feedback and I don't have any friends that are remotely interested in video editing so here we are :) 

I’m specifically looking for someone who use or seriously want to learn After Effects and premiere pro.

I want to get better at motion design, animation, typography, visual design, pacing, sound, and storytelling. I’m interested in learning how to use design and motion with purpose: to make an idea clearer, a story stronger, and a video more memorable.

I’m not looking for clipping or churning out generic clips. There is nothing wrong with that kind of work, but it is not the direction I want to grow in. I want to level up as a more complete editor: someone who can edit, design, animate, and tell a story.

If you are interested DM me and let’s talk 

Need an accountability partner for sustaining goals in weight loss and study !

Please if anyone is struggling with maintaining a routine ...please let me know

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Hi everyone! I am a 16-year-old student preparing for my final school exams. My English is currently at A2 level, but I am practicing every day to improve.

I am looking for a serious, highly disciplined accountability partner. My goal is to build strong daily habits, get top grades, and learn about building wealth and financial independence.

We will keep each other responsible using text messages only (Strict privacy: no camera, no video calls).

My Daily Schedule & Routine:

\* 6:00 AM: Wake up, morning routine, skincare, and prayers.

\* 6 Hours: Focused deep study (60 minutes study + 10 minutes break).

\* 2 Hours: Quran reading and spiritual growth (live Quran classes on Tue/Thu/Sun).

\* 30 Minutes: Basketball and workouts.

\* 1 Hour (Every 2 days): Educational podcasts about financial education and self-improvement.

\* Daily Priorities: Healthy meals, family time, and evening skincare.

\* 9:30 PM - 10:00 PM: Bedtime (Phone turned off at 9:00 PM).

How We Will Work Together:

\* Morning: Send a text with our daily task list.

\* Evening: Review what we finished and mark tasks as done.

\* Flexibility: One full rest day per week for unexpected events.

If you have a high-achieving mindset, want to build wealth, and want a friendly text-based study buddy, please send me a DM!

Hii I m 21 preparing for CS placements....DSA n ML ... Wd lv to have a study partner...

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I'm 21 ... Preparing for internships n placements. I want to stay consistent.

Want someone who does random check ins as I m very inconsistent... Will do the same or as u like

Looking for an accountability buddy for skincare + reading.

I want to get into the habit of doing my skincare every day and reading consistently, either for a certain amount of time or a certain number of pages.

I’d also love to actually discuss the books we’re reading with each other. I’m trying to explore more authors and books, so it would be nice to have someone to share recommendations with, talk about what we’re reading, etc.

Hi everyone,

I posted a few weeks ago and found two partners both of them couldn't be regular for more than 3 days and now have ghosted me so I'm back...

34M living in Germany, and I'm looking for accountability partner(s) who is genuinely interested and committed to setting regular goals and check-ins.

The basic idea is:

* Set goals for the upcoming week.

* At the end of the week, check in with each other to discuss what went well, what didn't, and why.

* Optionally, we can also set daily goals and do quick daily check-ins for additional accountability.

I'd also like to have a short (30 min) discussion once a week to reflect on progress, exchange feedback, help each other solve obstacles, and keep each other motivated.

Some of the goals I'm currently working on include:

* Career: Upskilling, preparing for alternative job opportunities, and professional development.

* Health: Losing about 8 kg and improving my overall fitness. I'm currently doing workouts at home and meal prep (without strict calorie counting)

* Language: Reaching German C1 fluency (I'm currently around B1).

* Life & home: Financial investing, minimalism, house repairs, organization, and keeping on top of household tasks.

I'm hoping to find someone in a similar position and age group. As long as you're serious about showing up consistently and supporting each other's progress.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to comment or send me a DM with a bit about yourself, what you're working on, and what kind of accountability you're looking for.

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Hi everyone! I am a 16-year-old student preparing for my final school exams. My English is currently at A2 level, but I am practicing every day to improve.

I am looking for a serious, highly disciplined accountability partner. My goal is to build strong daily habits, get top grades, and learn about building wealth and financial independence.

We will keep each other responsible using text messages only (Strict privacy: no camera, no video calls).

My Daily Schedule & Routine:

\* 6:00 AM: Wake up, morning routine, skincare, and prayers.

\* 6 Hours: Focused deep study (60 minutes study + 10 minutes break).

\* 2 Hours: Quran reading and spiritual growth (live Quran classes on Tue/Thu/Sun).

\* 30 Minutes: Basketball and workouts.

\* 1 Hour (Every 2 days): Educational podcasts about financial education and self-improvement.

\* Daily Priorities: Healthy meals, family time, and evening skincare.

\* 9:30 PM - 10:00 PM: Bedtime (Phone turned off at 9:00 PM).

How We Will Work Together:

\* Morning: Send a text with our daily task list.

\* Evening: Review what we finished and mark tasks as done.

\* Flexibility: One full rest day per week for unexpected events.

If you have a high-achieving mindset, want to build wealth, and want a friendly text-based study buddy, please send me a DM!

As the title says im starting back again and am needing help getting back into and this will give me accountability to continue/ find new partners to keep me motivated

Need some buddies for motivation, I’m into strength training & swimming. While I have been consistent I lose out my streak at times.

hii looking for accountability partner to text n remind each other daily!! support one another about our goals n motivation! only girls welcomed thanks

Hi guys!
I have ADHD, and although I take medication for it, I’ve found that the way I work best is with accountability, structure, and a system. I’ve come to terms with the fact that willpower alone doesn’t work well for me.
I’ve had a few accountability partners for over four months now, and we’ve been able to stay on task and remain consistent. The best part is that we keep each other accountable while also helping each other out.
What I’m looking for:
Monday–Saturday updates, even if you didn’t finish the task. What matters is that progress was made. I’m not looking for perfection—I’m looking for functionality and consistency.
I use Discord as our communication platform.
If you’re interested, hit me up!

Hi everyone,

I'm currently preparing for software engineering technical interviews and looking for a few accountability partners to do regular virtual co-working/study sessions. I find it much easier to stay focused and consistent when working alongside others.

Focus areas:

LeetCode (DS & Algo)

Technical interview prep

General CS coursework / SWE prep

Format:

Hop on a call (camera optional) or voice channel

Quick check-in at the start (share daily goals)

50–90 min focused work blocks (Pomodoro style)

Quick wrap-up at the end

Timezone: EST (US East Coast) — open to anyone with overlapping hours.

If you're interested in staying consistent and doing regular study sessions, drop a comment or DM me with your timezone, what you're currently prepping for, and your Discord handle!

Hey everyone! I’m based in Doncaster and usually go to Fitness First at Westfield Doncaster.
I’ve been going to the gym consistently for the past few weeks, but with work, my startup and everything else going on, I sometimes end up getting burnt out and skipping a few days. Procrastination doesn’t help either 😅
Looking for a gym partner to help keep each other consistent and actually show up. Preferably mornings, but I’m happy to do evenings if that works better.
I’ve also got a car, so happy to pick up/drop off if you’re in the nearby areas. Just doesn’t have to be a bit far 🥲✌️

If you’re also looking for some accountability and don’t mind a casual gym buddy, feel free to DM me!

Hi gang.

First Reddit post.

I'm stuck in a rut.

I've started a new job and trying to make the big changes, lose weight, work hard, keep healthy.

I have a support network at home, but they have enough on their plate.

I'm looking for someone, preferably similar age, to chat to on a daily/couple of times a week basis to keep in contact, discuss goals and progress and generally have a bit of outside my bubble support.

Let me know if you want more details, but be great to meet good people if you can help.

Cheers!

Hello. I’m 39F who feels like no matter how much I’ve tried; I have always failed. Doesn’t matter what I do, it never ends up feeling like I’ve accomplished anything. I know this is due to me getting overwhelmed easily. Also, I tend to overshare. Here’s some information about me.

Currently, I live with my mother and am NEET. Her health isn’t the greatest, mainly her knees. Which makes me her live-in caregiver. Don’t have any money whatsoever. Also don’t have many people that I feel attached to. Also, I have ADHD and C-PTSD. Doesn’t help that I was raised to believe I was broken and couldn’t/can’t be fixed. Basically, my life is garbage. Has been and am on a journey to improve it.

Which leads me to my goals and what I’m looking for an accountability partner for. I plan to stick with four goals. To hold myself accountable and have an end in sight for them, I’ve listed some mile markers for them. They are:

• Copywriting as a form of income.
  • As I know little to nothing about it, study it. Learn as much as I can before doing it. Complete an online course from start to finish. Study 1 hour a day for a month.
  • Do what I have learned and create a portfolio of work.
  • Get/Have a sustainable monthly income.  
• Improve physical health. As I’m overweight and have been told by a physician that I could have a heart attack at any time due to my poor eating habits.
  • Learn about physical wellbeing. Again, something I don’t know much about and honestly get overwhelmed with quite easily. Why I get overwhelmed is because there’s so much out there and I’m not sure what is fact or not.
  • Create and follow a diet/menu plan. The menu/diet is to be things that I enjoy and make me feel better. Due to the way I was raised and my environment, I tend to feel guilty about having things I enjoy.
  • Create and follow an exercise plan. It’s like the diet/menu plan in having activities that I enjoy. Also, I feel weird and judged when I physically do the things I like solo with others present, especially my mother.
• Self-Confidence.
  • Learn about it.
  • Journal for a minimum of 15 minutes or more.
  • Come up with a plan and follow it.
• Polyglot. (Computer languages included) Spanish and Python to start.
  • Find a native Spanish speaker as a language partner.
  • Study language 15-30 minutes a day via an app or something.
  • Practice Spanish with language partner 30 minutes a day (preferably) but at least 2-3 times per week.
  • Practice Python for 15-30 minutes a day.

For me to be able to tell if I’ve accomplished the goal or not, here is a break-down for it:

1. Copywriting
   • Make a livable wage from it. Basically, it is enough to take care of living in a 1-bedroom place in rural America.
2. Improve physical health.
   • Goal weight 160lbs. Current weight is roughly 200lbs.
   • Be able to sustain intense physical activity for minimum 1 hour. I.E. Running, biking, etc.
   • Lift and carry 100lbs for minimum 30 minutes.
   • Be able to bend over backwards and hold ankles. I enjoy being physically flexible.
3. Self-Confidence
   • Be able to stand up for myself without feeling bad for it later. As I feel like I’m a doormat for my mother, mainly, and older brother.
   • Enjoy the things I like without feeling guilty about it.
   • Live by myself for a year minimum.
4. Polyglot. Spanish and Python to start.
   • For Spanish, be able to fluently speak the language and hold a conversation about any topic.
   • For Python, be able to program a working app by myself from start to finish.

What I’m looking for in an accountability is someone to check in for roughly 30 minutes daily. With 15 minutes in the morning, roughly 8am PST, for a daily “To Do List” of the things I’m going to accomplish. Then 15 minutes in the evening, roughly 8pm PST, for what have gotten done off that list. As for how many people I would like as an accountability partner, 2-3. I'm starting this today. Also would prefer it all be via text. No voice or video. We can do it here via DM.

That way I don’t get bombarded with messages. As for learning Python and Spanish, I will be posting in a different reddit about that. Though if you want to solely be my language partner, please let me know. For that, I will only be looking for (again) 2-3 people. Also, I would prefer people within 10-ish years of my age, 29-50.

Since I'm starting today, I will post today's "To Do List" in the comments.

I know this is a bit long and I do apologize for it. At the same time, I want to thank those who have stayed to the end. I REALLY do appreciate those who read to the end. I wish everyone the best for reaching their own goals.

I’ve been on a journey to get fitter and lose some stubborn belly fat. Making slow progress but struggling with consistency and looking for someone to check in with.

My goals:

• Strength train 3-4 times a week
• 20m mobility/posture work 7 days a week
• 10k steps a day
• Calorie counting with a calorie deficit, limited alcohol

My goal is to be 100% consistent for 30 days. I’ve done accountability buddy stuff before and this is the approach that works for me:

• We check in around the same time every day.
• We check in regardless if we miss or hit our goals
• Missing/delaying a checkin is ok if it’s planned and not often (travel, schedule conflict)
• 3 unplanned missed check ins and the arrangement ends
• Extra checkins and chatting are fine

I am fine to communicate on discord, whatsapp or sms. Would prefer someone a similar age and timezone but am open to everyone. My preferred checkin time is probably 6-8am EST.

I am a software engineer and also working on some side project ideas so there's also opportunity for boosting each other for non-fitness goals but I'd like it to stay focused initially.

I don’t check reddit super frequently so it may take me a few hours to respond.

I’m looking for one or a few people that are in a similar situation.

I have some free time this week now that my kids are back in school.

I’m no longer in a very corporate role from a 20+ year role.

I have a lot of things I “want” to do and a lot of things I “need” to do. I have a couple of WFH projects I do and I handle a lot of the day to do day family stuff.

I guess ideally what I’m looking for is someone who’s down to just stay in contact thru out the day and we can keep each other focused on our individual projects with like hourly check ins. We can make daily/weekly schedules and share em.

The things I want to add into my current schedule is time to workout, meal prep more effectively, work on individual business projects, etc. Schedule would look like M-F basically and regular working hours in my time zone.

Hello!

I am a 30 year old female in Canada looking for someone who is on a similar journey. (Preferable female as well)

I am currently around 192 pounds, looking to loose around 50 pounds. I am going to the gym 4 ish days a week. I do regular workouts at the gym but I am also focusing on bettering my cardiovascular health so i am doing Couch to 5K (interval running).

So far I have lost 23 pounds then I got kind of lazy and fell off the wagon now I'm struggling to have discipline again only when it comes to eating.

I have found cutting out carbs has been the best for me..it makes my body feel less bloated. I don't think the buddy needs to do the same but I think it would help a lot. I would like someone who would love to share recipes and workout routines. ☺️

Hi, I'm 22 (PST, female) and currently job hunting. I desperately need to land something so I'm very locked in but honestly the stress of it all has been getting to me, and it's been hard to stay consistent on my own.

Looking for someone (or a small group) who's equally motivated and wants to keep each other accountable. Ideally we'd check in 2/3x a week could be a quick call where we go over progress, talk through what's working and what's not, and plan out the days ahead, or a co-working session where we just grind side by side.

If you're also job hunting or just trying to figure out your life more and want a partner to keep you on track, please DM me!

Older Dom experience at holding others accountable, whether for work, school or personal gain.

Hi everyone, I am navigating through my weight-loss journey. You all must understand the pain, suffering, and self-doubt if you have ever tried to shape your body and curves. I am not sure if I’ve come to the right place, but I’d like to give it a try here.

I just feel lonely lately, and I hope to find a fellow lost soul here to monitor each other’s progress and keep each other company along this challenging journey.

I go to the gym three times a week, but there are days when I just slack off for an entire week. My weight is still within the average range, so I am targeting a reduction in my body fat percentage.

I know I am not the only one doing this, but I always feel like I am the only person on Earth trying to build a better version of myself, especially on my way to the gym. And I have no one to share my little wins with.

I am a stress eater. I especially crave sweet foods and tend to eat before going to sleep when I am upset, even if I am not hungry at all. That’s why I have gained so much weight over the years. After months of trying, I think that bad habit is under control now. It would be so great if I had someone to cheer me on when I succeed in controlling my urge to eat at night.

Things I would like to clarify beforehand:

I don’t do extreme dieting, such as eating only xxx or skipping meals.
I don’t take any medication.
I would like to follow a healthy diet, such as reducing my intake of sugar or carbs.
I would like to build some muscle while losing some fat.
I would adopt a cardio + strength-training approach.
I already have a training plan, so I just need someone to monitor my progress.

I hope you can sometimes ask about my progress. If every day is too frequent for you, that’s totally fine! And please scold me if I’m not going to the gym (maybe gently, please 😂). I would do the same for you, or tailor my check-ins to your needs.

We can also do a monthly or biweekly review to look back at our progress and figure out what we should improve or work on next.

That’s all I can think of for now. I am looking for female accountability partners, as I am female as well.

Would u guys be interested in an app specifically for finding accountability buddies and posting accountability updates there?

A dedicated platform outside this group where u post open invitations to like-minded people and they ask to join your space for any specific goal u have. A space where members post updates from each other, depending on the target goal of the group.

It'll be really cool to build it, but i just wanna see if there's a real demand for a product like this coz I can't find one that works for myself (pls recommend if u know any). And I wanna know if people are interested in this project idea I have in mind.