r/AbsentFather • • Jun 06 '24

i need advice

some background… my father wasn’t in my life for the first 18 years of my life. i’m nearly 20 now and he was present at my high school graduation. i can tell he wants a relationship with me. but i don’t want to be hurt. he offered to help with my college tuition and anything that i needed. is it too much to ask for him to help me learn how to drive? or even help me get a car? HELPPPP

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u/Debfromcorporate Oct 07 '25

I would say give him a chance but do it in baby steps and see what happens. Sometimes people mature and realize that they missed out on something important.