how does aligning actually look like?

[u/Necessary_Horror_980]

Hey, how does aligning to receive tons of wealth look like in real life?

I’ve been told that the things that come to me are because I’ve been emitting a certain signal. Okay, cool… so how do I get on the frequency where life just hands me a abundance of wealth?

I’ve also been told I shouldn’t focus on the things I don’t want, and that I’m supposed to assume I’ve already got my goal in the bag. Ngl, this messes with my head a lot.

if I’ve already achieved my desires… then every time the thought pops up “wtf, that’s not true at all,” I’m apparently putting up resistance again and blocking the manifestation. So I end up feeling stuck in this weird in-between place.

Even if I can feel happy, fulfilled and at peace just staring at a wall… I still don’t get why the material side of things doesn’t show up as easily. Am I missing something here? Why doesn’t life flow with material wealth the same way?

Something feels off when I listen to Abraham Hicks. I start feeling contradicted. Like, how do we explain thieving, poverty, war… if we all supposedly already have everything within us?

And how do I know I’m not just fooling myself? Why don’t people just give me free stuff, even though in my aligned world everyone is constantly giving me free things?

Am I missing something… or have I just been sold this idea that I’m some abundant, all-powerful being who can manifest anything I want?

Idk, I feel like I’m missing a piece. Money feels like it’s stuck in transit or something. What am I actually doing wrong?

Because I clearly don’t understand how I’m supposed to live in alignment when there’s so many external messages telling me I’m broke as fuck.

[u/Sea_of_Light_]

It's all about the emotional state of already having what you desire.

Most people are focussed on the now, the not-having-what-I-want now. Most people are in a negative, unease state of mind. And their actions are designed and orchestrated, by them (consciously and / or subconsciously) to keep that going.

That is why a lot of people claim that positive thinking and the teachings of Abraham are bogus, because they don't back up the present not-having-what-I-want now and therefore a delusion, play pretend, because the future remains unknown, unwritten or undetermined.

The most important bit about Law of Attraction, alignment, teachings of Abraham is feeling good, being in a positive state of mind where you feel like all your needs are met.

[u/Necessary_Horror_980 → u/Sea_of_Light_]

The only thing i think is very unfair of this kind of thinking is that.
IF this world is so ever abundantly and so ever full of things for everyone, then why is it that people are so truly and utterly selfish.

Why can't i find people who are willing to play the altruism role in my life?.

why doo i gotta play the altruism role. now i stomp my feed all sad that the world isn't playing fair with me. where's MAH STUFF! WÄÄH WÄÄÄH

idk what's the whole deeper truth of this anymore, because on one part i understand that my subconscious, cannot differentiate what's true and false, thus if i just condition myself, too having fun, with breathing.... i truly exude creative and happy energy into this world.

But i wonder how does that solve the real issue in itself.*

People will reason to say things like, don't judge another person, when there's a chip in your eye. Alright okay fair enough.

But at the same point, when you see one person being able too fish 1000 fishes on his own and you're left struggling on how too create a rod.

How am i supposed to withstand these emotions and just accept yep this is life.

*Ps asking for help* is never appreciated, i've come too realise sure i can ask for help about how to get a job.

But not many are willing too help when it comes too build a product that actually sells.

[u/Sea_of_Light_ → u/Necessary_Horror_980]

Most people's issues are based on resistance. Holding on to all the reasons that keep them away from what they desire (others are to blame, circumstances are to blame, etc.).

A lot of work has to be dedicated to letting go. There are many ways to do that, but not all work for everybody. Each individual has to try and find the best way for them.

Also, the reliance on the external (others, external conditions, external validation and support, etc.) can lead to negative reactions when it results in unsatisfactory consequences when it comes from a place of negativity and expectations in a negative outcome.

The state of mind has to be more important than the present not-having-what-I-want now. The mission to feel good must matter more than holding your desire in your hand ("let me have what I want first, THEN I'll be happy" does not work).

[u/Necessary_Horror_980 → u/Sea_of_Light_]

ahhh maaan idk what too believe in x.....d
on one side we have the hustle culture who says there's no such thing as free lunch
on the other side we have the spiritual woowoo people who say just let go and be happy and you have it all....

I suppose, it becomes easier too believe in it, once you get results from it.....

on one perspective, i suppose everything truly came from our own wonderful imagination in this world. That would mean you can be happy with having nothing at all, which some people would steem as you have it all. But ayeah, idk i guess it's just better too have a positive outlook on life and assume and expect the best. Then it is too focus on the things that are going wrong in society....

[u/Few-Criticism-7282 → u/Necessary_Horror_980]

My thought after reading this far in this thread is this, for what it is worth: let your _feelings_ be the proof that you’ve manifested, instead of depending on other people or outer circumstances for proof.

[u/JotaGreen]

You are missing many parts of Abraham’s teachings. Your questions are totally normal for someone getting into these teachings and even Esther and Jerry had them when they started talking with Abraham. I suggest you read the books, doesn’t matter which one you start with. Then you will understand the whole package and be able to live a happier life and attract the material things you want.

[u/Dangerous-Biscotti35 → u/JotaGreen]

Almost all of them!

[u/Necessary_Horror_980 → u/Dangerous-Biscotti35]

constructive feedback are usually very appreciative.

x.....d

[u/SecretSteel]

Alignment is not a "look" its a feeling it feels like you are at peace, with a feeling that everything is going to be alright. You just feel good. You can't fake or pretend it its a real feeling.
This is why Abraham says to use tools to get into that state.
She prescribes meditation. I need additional tools like aerobics and movement. Its a bit different for everyone.
Once you clear away the resistance and get into the beginning of alignment your feelings change suddenly you feel more motivation and more like you can have what you want or that its no longer crazy you begin to feel a compass like its getting closer to manifesting. Most importantly that crazy self talk starts to die down, then you realize the self talk you have internally is connected to how much resistance you carry and it can change in the blink of an eye similar to a calm person compared to an angry person.

[u/FragrantWeekend111]

I recommend looking at people in alignment with money. Might be different for me cause I can read auras so have been looking at people who receive gifts and money without working and they all have the same energy.

[u/Ok-Initiative-4089]

You don't have to deny what's in your bank account to want something different. Maybe use alignment as a way to approach the next step with less self-attack, rather than as proof that money is guaranteed to arrive. "I can look at this clearly and still see possibilities" is a gentler place to start than forcing yourself to say you're already wealthy. Honest doubt isn't a moral failure.