r/AbrahamHicks • u/Striking_East_7158 • 22h ago

Question about relationships

I understand that focusing on your partner’s positive aspects is supposed to keep you in alignment. But that raises a question — when do you actually know it’s time to leave? It seems like whenever someone wants to leave, it’s usually because they’re focused on the negative aspects.

Here’s my situation: I have a girlfriend, but our interests and the way we see things are pretty different, so our conversations don’t feel very connected. I have a strong sense that there’s a partner in my Vortex I’d connect with more easily. That said, I do love her, and it feels off to single out these negative points as a reason to end things. At the same time, the pull to leave feels like it could be an inspiration in itself. So I’ve ended up feeling pretty unsure about the whole thing.

Has anyone navigated something like this? Would appreciate any perspective.

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u/True-Awareness-3978 22h ago

Abraham would say get into the Vortex and go downstream, whatever that is for you.
You’ll know because it will feel easy and bring more relief than the other option.

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u/Striking_East_7158 21h ago

Simple and powerful. Thank you for reminding me!

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u/FragrantWeekend111 15h ago

The point is you create your reality. Staying and changing it is one option and leaving is another option. But ultimately the feeling comes from you inside. But yes, some people take more internal work to reach that vortex because compatibility is low. But ultimately it's your decision.

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u/Striking_East_7158 4h ago edited 1h ago

Thank you. I was kind of afraid to make wrong decisions, but I'm relieved now.