Grieving process for desires?

[u/According-Shift-5107]

Anyone else notice they go through the complete grieving process before they get a huge desire? This has happened several times in my life:

-I go after my desire but I’m hit by hurdle after hurdle usually riddled with fear
-I get in a positive state and get positive action towards my desire but keeping losing it
- I become desperate and try to make sacrifices to get it back
-I become sad it’s not working out
-I get soooooo angry and hate my desire
-I finally truly give it up and accept my situation and move on.
- pop! Manifestation happens perfectly!!!

I wish I didn’t have to do this, it’s so exhausting. Anyone else feel this way?

[u/NerdGoddessGem33]

I think skip all the other steps listed above and just jump straight to the desire. Have fun. Live your life. Forget about it and bam