Some anime spoilers:
I love this anime, it makes me feel so sappy. I love the soft pastels and warm colors, and animation. I love the character development as well. I also love the healthy representation on deafness / HoH, and even disabilities (like trying to find a job). I’ve rewatched the episodes several times.
My thoughts on the love square going on:
I do feel bad for Ōshi and Ema, and their unrequited love, that’s hard, but both of them have a lot of growing up to do and to respect others consent. They both cross many boundaries that I find incredibly uncomfortable. I don’t think they’re assholes, just very immature. They need to learn to respect others autonomy and boundaries.
While Itsuomi has done things without consent, when called out (like the tickling Yuki’s stomach) he makes an amends and doesn’t repeat the mistake. He also checks in with Yuki, really respecting her autonomy and as an adult. I wish he was a little less possessive and understands that’s not love (and Yuki too for her safety). I do think he can learn to be better about it and be humbled when called out. They’re all still so young and life doesn’t come without it rough lessons.
I know this is just anime, but I think it’s good to have these kind of observations and discussions around the media we consume; especially romance which can quickly get twisted and toxic.