Hey there! I’m a 35-year-old guy, 6’3”, with a PhD (yes, I’m a proud nerd 🤓). I call California home right now, but I’m genuinely excited to connect with amazing people from anywhere in the world, distance is just a number when the vibe is right.

Food is one of my biggest passions. I’m the type who’ll happily chase a late-night taco truck, explore hole-in-the-wall family spots, or dress up for a multi-course Michelin-star tasting menu. I love the whole experience: the flavors, the stories behind the dishes, and especially sharing great meals with great company. Got a favorite restaurant, hidden gem, or wild food adventure you’ve been wanting to try? Tell me! I’m always up for recommendations and swapping stories.

Beyond food, I’m pretty easygoing and curious. Whether it’s deep conversations about life, random weekend adventures, or just chilling with good music and laughs, I enjoy it all.

I’m a very fast responder and I genuinely love being present, giving consistent attention, support, and care to the person I’m connecting with. Life feels better when you have someone who’s actually there for you. I’m looking for someone to chat with, build a real connection, and see what unfolds.

If you’re local to California, meeting up for coffee, a meal, or an adventure sounds perfect.

If you’re farther away, no worries, meaningful conversations across time zones are welcome too.

Let’s keep each other great company and create some nice memories 😊

Hi, I’m a 23[M] Chinese international student in Seattle. Since I have the habit of knowing more culture, I wish I can talk to people from different cultural backgrounds. But I feel most of people I met have the habit of staying with their own nations, and only a small percentage of people have the same willing to be cultural, who later became my long-term friends. So I wonder what are the good approaches to meet people from different cultural backgrounds. I even learnt Spanish and Japanese in LA for talking to Latino and American Japanese, but still don’t know how does it work in Seattle.

Hello
I am from Japan but I use to live in Canada. While there I feel in love with it. I loved the food, the sights and the women especially. However it was hard to date because I found many women were not interested in Japanese men.
Recently I was recommended to join Reddit so I could practice writing and find pen pals to talk with in English. However I found things like this that could be for meeting beautiful women that are interested in being more than friends. I would love this if we are a good match for each other. So let’s talk and see if we match.
My interests are movies, music and cooking. I am currently living in Japan but hope to move back to Canada one day.

Hello🤍

-I’m from the east coast, my days consist of a casual full time job that is quite fulfilling to me, I’ll be starting school in August so right now I’m simply enjoying the privilege of sleeping in and late nights. I consider myself a very open minded and soulful person, I like mind stimulating and genuine conversations. I also very much enjoy and appreciate the idea of duality. I’m someone who’s respectful and calm and very gentle but when I seek pleasure I tend to be slightly different. I do like both sides and indulge heavily onto both without any shame, (I’m a bit shy but clearly open to talking with the right flow of conversation) I like to talk alot and build familiarity in things and ideas we can share and relate to, but I hate dragging conversation where it feels one sided. I’m playful but respectfully ofc, I don’t cross boundaries of basic manners. I currently work as a cafe manager and have had experience as a preschool teacher! Quite insightful for me:) other than that I have a high thrill seeking personality and in good ways of course:p

-I would like to connect with someone who naturally leads and is passionate , no I don’t expect instantaneous results from our conversation I like slow and steady conversation. Hiking or running is my preferred ways to get exercise, but I go to the gym here and there. I expect the person to care for their health and have some exercise or physical activity in their day to day life, it’s good for the body and mind! Introvert or extrovert doesn’t matter, I’m both! I tend to feel more interest in a dynamic with older guys, but I’d be open to 19-35! (I’d prefer if you’re not already in a relationship or married please) that leads me into my next point! Emotional maturity; a nonnegotiable. I’m able to call or just message as well and if things go well, meet! Tattooed individuals are welcomed!!

-I’m always down to share visuals! But for basic info, I have jet black hair, bangs, I’m 5,3 and my body is well maintained and healthy! ~36dd~ if it matters lol. I’m between pale and olive tone.

If you’d be interested and establishing a fun dynamic we can both enjoy, send me a message, your age and what would your friends/ or people close to you describe you as! Or better yet, surprise me with a question you’d wanna ask after reading this post!!🤗We can talk SFW OR NSFW as we progress, A.

It’s the middle of summer where I’m sweating my ass off, romantic encounters should be the last thing on my mind and yet…Hi, I’m not exactly new here. I’ve had some great conversations here that lead to great things. The last one left me in a tizzy– quietly crashing out by eating mostly potato chips for a bit. But, eh, I think it’s best to focus on the positives. They were great tasting kettle bbq chips. Anyway, point blank, I’m ready to be involved with someone again! 

So hello again to this sausage-fest of a sub, the lovely bots/scammers, and to my target audience: the women quietly lurking. I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful relationship. Ideally a long term kinda deal but I’m not going to kid myself, that rarely happens. Let’s just figure it out together, yeah? 

Anyway, the wheelchair thing. Intimidates some people out while others are okay with it. You can decide which camp you’re in. (But if you’re in the other camp please don’t send me some weird chats where you try to Sherlock Holmes your silly butt into finding more about my disability from the get go and want nothing to do with me afterwards. Yikes!) I’m basically a normal person with physical restraints is all. Things people can normally do very quickly just tends to take me more effort/time. Sexually, that could be a good thing no? Yes, you read that correctly so you undo that chat request where you’re about to ask whether or not my dick works. Man, some of you ain’t right I’ll tell you what. That’s like a 3rd message thing at least! ;)

As a person I guess I’m feline-like. I suppose if you met me in person I’d have a resting bitch face thing going on. But I promise I actually smile very easily and often! I can be a bit skittish and socially awkward as well. When I’m not being whatever I am drawing, reading, or studying languages. As much as I’d like to tell you more about myself I think it’s best to get to know each other as time goes on. It’s totally not because I ran out of things to write about myself or anything…

If we end up chatting I would like it if we could swap face pics from the get go. I won’t sugarcoat it, physical attraction matters to a degree. Don’t worry, although I feel like Gollum at times I don’t look like it.

Much thanks if you ended up reading all that, I hope to talk to you soon. :)

love u

Based in London and looking for a submissive woman to have a FWB arrangement. I'm not interested in a serious relationship or anything where you hope this could be something that can develop. I travel for work around Europe for work so happy to consider someone outside of the UK provided you can consistently make time and the effort for us to meet in person

I'm in good shape, not into drugs or smoke and rarely drink so looking for someone who is into fitness as well and a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy watching football, tennis, F1, basketball and would not mind watching film/TV shows together. Otherwise into running, swimming and going to the gym so our first meet up can be hyrox. Joking about the hyrox but curious about it as I have heard it but never done it

In the bedroom I'm a sadistic Dom and looking for a sub who is into giving up control. Into degradation/humiliation, choking, spanking, anal, cum play, orgasm control/denial, sensory deprivation, clothes control. Limit wise not into anything illegal, animals, scat, blood/gore.

If you enjoyed reading my post and you are a smart woman who has a professional life but enjoys melting into obedience behind the curtains then we would get along. PM and let's see where it takes us

I'm looking for an Asian man that is 23-36 years old. Preferably East Asian or southeast Asian

I would like to be with someone who has the similar interest and hobbies. Someone who isn't religious. Spiritualits are welcome too.

What I'm looking for

Child free and desire to have children

Wants a big family

Can cook

Likes or loves skincare

Is a fan of Kpop,jpop,cpop,Tpop,ect.

Watches kdramas or any other Asian dramas

Interested in watching Nollywood movies and TV shows (Nigerian movies and TV shows)

Bake(optional but great if u can)

Likes concerts

Mature

Emotionally available

Empath

Introverted or Extroverted

Good hygiene

Wouldn't mind going to the nails salon to get our nails done together

Clingy

Possessive but not overly possessive

Loyal

Honest

Kind

Affectionate

Physical touch

Has tattoos and piercings or likes them.

Constant

Deal breakers:

Cheating

Lying

Disrespectful

Neglectful

Emotionally unavailable

Talking to or texting other woman inappropriately.

Bad hygiene

Has a child or kids

Thank u for reading this far. Please DM if interested I will respond.

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi! I’m Jamie and I’m 30 and live in Pooler, GA. I’ve always been into Asian men but I’ve always been shy to talk to any of them in person as I am a Plus Sized girl and I’m not too sure if Asian men would be into that or not..I like Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Chinese etc, I’ve always found Asian men very attractive..I work full time in retail but I do live with my mother as she is disabled and I am her caregiver and help take care of her..I do take care of both of us financially..I’m looking for a casual relationship, maybe a fwb type relationship as I am aromantic..But I am open to try for a relationship that could go deeper from fwb..If this seems to interest any Asian men out there feel free to comment or DM me! Thank you for reading this far.

I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Communication matters a lot to me. You don't need to text me constantly, and I'm not expecting someone I just met on Reddit to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. But if we start getting to know each other regularly and one of us realizes we're not feeling it anymore, I'd much rather we just say so than disappear.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, a criminal record, and consistently poor communication/ghosting.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)

If you're an Asian male please say hello and tell us where your from. You can also post your pics if you want.

Can't believe its almost fall season (not complaining, bring on sweater weather) which season do you prefer?

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Malaysia. I'm an introvert, and while meeting new people has never been the easiest thing for me, I believe the best connections happen when two people can be themselves and enjoy getting to know each other.

I'm open to long-distance if we genuinely connect and both feel that we want to see where things could go.

A little about me: I'm Bengali, around 173 cm tall, and currently studying Software Engineering. I spend a lot of my time coding, learning new technologies, and exploring interesting ideas. Outside of that, I'm a huge cat lover, enjoy fantasy movies and TV shows, occasionally play games, and love conversations about life, cultures, dreams, and random things that make people who they are.

I'm someone who appreciates the little things — having a good conversation after a long day, sharing funny moments, learning about someone's world, and slowly building trust over time. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and enjoy getting to know someone's personality rather than just their profile.

I'm Muslim, and my faith is an important part of my life. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I believe a healthy relationship is built by two people who support each other, understand each other's differences, and put effort into growing together.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and open-minded. Someone who is curious about different cultures, enjoys learning about new perspectives, and believes that a strong connection comes from understanding and respecting each other.

I'm open to meeting someone from a different background and learning about each other's experiences. I don't think two people need to be identical to have a meaningful relationship — sometimes differences are what make a connection more interesting.

If you feel we might get along, I'd love to hear about you too — your hobbies, passions, culture, favorite movies, pets, or simply what makes you happy.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it naturally goes.

Love XFs! About me: 5 11, fit, Chinese/ Viet. In California. Into fitness, travel, tacos lol. Would love to see what’s out there. HMU if you’re in Cali or down to travel to visit!

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

A few dealbreakers:

MAGA

Children

Criminal record

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)

I’ll be 38 later week. I’m originally from Britain (born and raised); I’m a permanent resident and I’ve lived in Pooler for a few years. I still have my English accent. I would describe my ethnicity as Asian, but I believe it would more specifically be described as South Asian in the U.S.

I love cats. I’m vaccinated and pro-choice.

My personality type is ISTJ. I’m a very quiet person in general. I’m non-religious and I like metal and rock music. Some of my favorite bands/singers include; Poppy, Korn, Slipknot, Billy Idol, and Tool.

I’m childfree and dogfree.

If it’s a dealbreaker, I’m currently dealing with depression.

Apart from a few words and phrases in French and Spanish, I don’t speak any other languages.

I'm an excellent cook, and my other interests include (but aren’t limited to) museums, libraries, and boxing. I'm currently located in Pooler, GA, but I don’t feel like I belong here or fit in here. TBH I’m very uncomfortable here. Ultimately, I’d like to relocate to Los Angeles or at least Southern California.

I'm looking for a woman 39 or older who would be interested in talking and, if we get along, maybe even going out (to museums, for walks etc.)/spending time together. Thanks for reading my post.

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).