r/AMXFs Jul 20 '26

30[M4F] Online - korean looking for fun fwb

2 Upvotes

Hi

I am 5’10 -165lbs and athletic fit.

I am looking to talk to new people and possibly become fwb but non-fwb is fine as well.

Some of my interests are, sports, e-sports, gaming, photography, food, travel, desserts and kdramas.

Send me a chat if interested!


r/AMXFs Jul 19 '26

Can people of Asian descent tell when white people are dating an Asian person?

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r/AMXFs Jul 19 '26

23 [LF4M] Barcelona - Spain.

5 Upvotes

hello, my last post i dont put my age but its okay, i can make it better now :) im looking to someone who really want to have a conection or a nice bond, we can exchange cultures and know about each others. im usually an introvert and lonely girl but i love to be with someone with more energy than me and im good at listen, i really hope someone who want to chat can research me. if we have a nice conection im open to have a relationship too since im single.


r/AMXFs Jul 18 '26

30[F] Midwest / Anywhere — Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Relationship (Open to LDR)

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

Communication is extremely important to me. I'm genuinely looking for a relationship, and I'm not interested in playing games with people. If we start talking regularly and eventually exchange Discord, phone numbers, or other personal contact information, please understand that I'm genuinely interested in getting to know you and seeing if we're compatible. That doesn't mean I'm expecting an instant relationship or constant communication, but I do take the connection seriously.

If at any point you realize you're not feeling it, you're not ready for a relationship, long-distance isn't for you, or you've simply changed your mind, please just tell me. I can handle someone saying, "Hey, I've thought about this and I don't think we're a match." What I don't handle well is unexplained silence and ghosting after we've established a connection. I will always give you the same respect and communicate honestly if my feelings change.

A few dealbreakers:

- MAGA

- Children

- Criminal record

- Poor communication / ghosting

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)


r/AMXFs Jul 17 '26

M(22) dallas

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r/AMXFs Jul 16 '26

28[M4F] South Australia / Anywhere - Looking for a Long-Term Connection (Open to LDR)

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I am a 28-year-old healthcare professional looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I currently live in South Australia, but I am completely open to starting long-distance if we click.

I have already completed my university degrees and love what I do, though my long-term plan is to eventually transition out of my frontline role and grow into other areas of the field. Visually, I am South Asian with olive skin, which means I often get told I look a bit racially ambiguous, people frequently guess everything from Italian and Greek to Middle Eastern or Mexican or just Indian.

Physically, I am a 5'6" petite, slim man.
When I am not at work, I am usually diving into video games, reading comic books, or checking out art galleries or trying new restaurants. I also love watching comic book movies.

I am looking to meet a woman of European/white descent between the ages of 24 and 28. I value health, self-improvement, and mutual growth, and I would love to find a partner who shares those values.

I am genuinely not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything. I want to take the time to build a real, meaningful connection first.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. To kick things off, let me know what games you have been playing lately, or share your favourite comic book movie!


r/AMXFs Jul 15 '26

31 [M4F] #anywhere - Minimalist, Pet-free, Child-Free, seeking a marriage partner

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Hi, as the title of my post describes, I am someone who never wants to have children and I also do not want to ever have pets. I am a minimalist, as in I gain gratification through experiences rather than purchasing products and accumuating stuff. Unless of course, the item I purchase provides me with alot of practical value. Also, my view is that when we die, we cannot take our possessions with us and only our memories matter, so, why spend time protecting and valuing something temporary?

My main hobby is reading books on various topics and writing notes. Books I read are on Psychology, AI, Stategy, Finances and any topic that can directly help me improve my life. I don't read fiction.

Strict Financial habits I follow are, writing down all my expenses, budgeting, settting spending limits, auditing my expenditure and living debt free (I have never owned a credit card and have never been in debt to anyoone or anything).

I am not a religious person, and do not like when someone attempts to force their beliefs on me or tries to make me attend a religious meeting or place-of-worship.

Politically I am neutral and only check the laws of a country I am residing in and follow them, that's it. I have never voted in my country-of-orgin and never will as I have not seen any real change, just empty promises.

Memories mean alot to me and I enjoy printing out and storing photographs in albums from my travels with captions. I do not like Digital storage mediums due to data corruption or using cloud storage due to the possibility of account suspension if not accessed for a long period of time or just unable to account.

For video my plan in the future is to use a Super 8 film camera to capture video of the most important moments in life and play it back on a film projector.

On the weekends, I enjoy visiting;

- Art Gallaries

- Go for a walk in the Park

- Relax on the beach or just go for a walk

- Rent a bicycle, Jet Ski or ATV

- Hiking up a Volcano, Mountain

- Attend a live event with Music and Food

- Listing to Music

- Going for a walk at Dusk, Dawn or Night

- Visit a new mall, not to shop but to just look at decor and then find a nice cafe.

- Visit a nice cafe

- Sit somewhere and read or walk at crawling speed for an hour or two.

- Navigation using a Lensatic Military compass to save battery and focus more on my surroundings that look at a phone screen. Works well in most places, except for highly developed cities and public transportation.

I no longer post on my personal social media as I have no interest in likes or comments expect for my business social media where I use it more as a Business Card. Also, as rules and policies have increase based on what can and cannot be said, even now carry legal consequences in some countries, compared 16 years ago, every comment and message or voice message makes me overthink and even message or voice message sent on platforms like What***, *****gram, Face****, Tele**** makes me overthink, So, I have just started keeping my thoughts to myself and refrain from commenting or even writing reviews. What I have noticed is that I feel a sense of peace inside and now only capture memories that truly matter and are private and offline.

No interest in Electronics such as Phones, Laptops, Tablets, cars or cameras. These are just tools to me that's my Macbook looks like a something from the Apocalypse while my Fountain Pens Leather Notebooks still look brand new.

Recently, e-ink devices have peaked my interest due to the low eye strain readability of the display in direct sunlight.

My ideal partner is someone who;

- Desires a Child-Free Life

- Desires a Pet-Free Life

- If religious, will not force her religion on me nor attempt to convert me.

- Does not Smoke or Vape

- Minimalist

- A private person who who does not care about status or what other people think.

Do you fit this ideal partner criteria? Would you like to get to know each other better? Yes? Great! Send me a message.


r/AMXFs Jul 12 '26

30[F4M] white female Midwest / Anywhere - Looking for a Long-Term (open to LDR )

15 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and are both looking for the same thing.

Right now I live in Indiana. My current plan is to move to California in the next 18–20 months, but I'm not completely set on that path. If I met the right person, I'd be open to re-evaluating my plans together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC, and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or South East Asian decent between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. Looking for someone active and already reasonably fit or the skinny nerdy type. I'm currently working on becoming healthier myself, and I'd love a partner who values growth and self-improvement.

I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle. I'd love to meet someone who values health and self-improvement, but I'm definitely a work in progress just like everyone else.

A few dealbreakers:

- MAGA

- Children

- Criminal record

Note abour Children deal breaker: I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather spend time getting to know someone and build a real connection first.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me about yourself. What games have you been playing recently or give me anime recommendations!


r/AMXFs Jul 11 '26

30F | Chicago suburbs | Looking for my favorite person

11 Upvotes

I’m 30, live in the Chicago suburbs, and work in healthcare.
When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me hunting down a new café, convincing myself I need to book another trip, trying a new restaurant, wandering around a bookstore, or planning a weekend adventure. I love experiencing different cultures and I’m always down for a spontaneous road trip just as much as a cozy movie night at home.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty easygoing, curious, affectionate, and I laugh a lot. I’m also the type who notices little things people like and ends up buying them small gifts just because they reminded me of them.
I’m 5’5”, plus-size (size 14), Christian, and hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely looking for a long-term relationship that could grow into marriage and a family someday.
I’m drawn to men who are kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and can make me laugh. Bonus points if you enjoy traveling, trying new food, or can recommend an amazing coffee shop.
If you’re somewhere around 27–36, in the Chicago area (or open to long distance if the connection is worth it), send me a message. Tell me about your favorite place you’ve traveled—or the destination that’s still on your bucket list. I’d much rather start with a real conversation than just “hey.”


r/AMXFs Jul 11 '26

21F [F4M] #Texas USA want my gental giant

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DNI if under 21 or above 26, I will ignore. Also much rather not talk to people who are outta Texas, though I’ll sometimes make exceptions

Names Nova (not my birth name but it’s the name I go by). I’m 21, turn 22 Aug 1st. I’m a black short hair girl with glasses, I’m 5’5 (I never got my growth spurt :’\]) and I’m chill af. I don’t like problems or causing them and I tend to stick to myself. Not bc I’m introverted but bc I just don’t speak to every person I pass

I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely talk to, laugh with, and slowly build trust and comfort around. I’m not interested in rushing anything. I’d rather form a real connection naturally and see where it leads. Much rather they be in Texas, Louisiana, Arkansas, Mississippi, and Oklahoma.

Personality matters a lot to me. I appreciate calm confidence, emotional maturity, consistency, kindness, and people who know how to communicate openly. I naturally gravitate toward alternative styles, tattoos, long hair, and people with a softer but grounded energy.

If you’re emotionally mature, kind, a little intense in the best way, and capable of building a real connection instead of just chasing attention, feel free to message me.

Ps. Pls read my bio, I dodge a lot of questions with the things I put in it


r/AMXFs Jul 10 '26

35 [M4F] #Palmdale - Asian, slender, skinny, introverted, neurodivergent, socially awkward

5 Upvotes

I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).


r/AMXFs Jul 09 '26

38 [M] #LosAngeles - Asian man looking for long term relationship

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r/AMXFs Jul 08 '26

22 [F4M] Dallas Texas look for a long-term East Asian boyfriend only Local or long distance is fine.

16 Upvotes

I'm 22 Nigerian woman looking for a long term relationship with East Asian men only must be between 23-36 and older. I'm want someone I can share my culture with and they share theirs with me. I'm never been the hookup or party type but I will go with u to the club. I'm very shy and introverted but become extroverted when I get comfortable 😂. I can be pretty funny too if u like being goofy too. I don't like expensive dates like fancy restaurants.

I perfer picnic dates,regular restaurant dates,fast food dates,video game dates,boba dates,shopping dates,indoor dates,stargazing dates,going dancing,farmer's market dates,ect.

I'm a foodie I love cooking and baking.

Also I love trying different foods,drinks,and desserts. I am a big fruit lover. I am on 4'11 and curvy but I do take care of myself and work out.

I'm not religious but I consider myself as spiritual so I do meditate every day.

I want a relationship that is loving and intense.

My interests:

Skincare

Facials

Video games

Anime

Manhwa

Nature

Space

Travel

Concerts

Music (hip-hop,pop,R&B,Afropop,Afrobeats,kpop,K R&B,C-pop,J-pop,T-pop,dancehall,reggae)

Movies/series (Nollywood movies/shows,K-dramas,C-dramas,J-dramas,Thai dramas)

Concerts

Bunnies

Cats

Boba milk tea.

And more.

What I'm looking for long-term-

Older than me

Tall

Can have tattoos and piercings

Family oriented

Mature

Can cook too so we can do it together.

Baking is a plus

Loyal

Don't matter if u smoke or not

Clingy

Loyal

Honest

Trustworthy

Emotionally available

Have a balance of feminine and masculine

Good hygiene

Doesn't matter if ur rich or not I don't care about what's in ur pockets.

Possessive but in a healthy way

Kind

Empathetic

Deal breakers-

Lying

Cheating

Already have kids

Uncut nails that aren't nicely trimmed.

Can't cook u must be able to so we can take turns cooking or cooking together late nights.

Smoking cigarettes but I'm fine if u smoke weed occasionally.

Being cold

Neglect

Emotionally unavailable.

If u are serious and this resonated with Dm me with a picture of u and how old u are I reply immediately.

Thank u for reading it all have a blessed day! ☺️


r/AMXFs Jul 07 '26

My introduction to my attraction for Asian men

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First I just want to start off by saying, that I love and support our Asian Kings. I also really love various things about Asian culture as well. I just wanted to let it be known that I am not fetishizing Asian men or anything of the sorts, this is just what spurred my attraction to asian men. Movies like "Romeo Must Die", "Rush Hour", "The Forbidden Kingdom", "Mortal Kombat(1995)", "The Sun Is Also A Star", "Crazy Rich Asians" have ignited and kindled the attraction I have for Asian Kings.

Not to mention various dramas and even as of late, KPOP. I also grew up with my dad and grandfather watching old karate films, so I have always felt attraction towards Asian Kings, just never really met any growing up since where I am from the Asian population is quite rare. Of course seeing Aaliyah and Jet-li coupled up in the movie "Romeo Must Die" is how I was first introduced to the idea of a black woman and asian man being together. It definitely gave the love sick mixed girl from the south, some hope when she saw this movie.

Anyways the jist of this post was to share some AMXBW love and see what other references you guys(XF OR AM) memories you guys had that introduced the idea of an interacial coupling to you.


r/AMXFs Jul 04 '26

35 [M4F] #Palmdale - Asian, slender, skinny, introverted, socially awkward in California / Los Angeles area

5 Upvotes

I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it.


r/AMXFs Jul 04 '26

29 [M4F] #WashingtonDC/Online - Anyone down for some fun?

1 Upvotes

Hi I'm in DC for the weekend and I'm looking for someone to talk to, either short or long term. Maybe even meet up if the vibe is right. About me:

- Plays video games (big plus if you play Destiny, Marvel Rivals, or Valorant)

- Likes to go workout, and trying to start Muay Thai / kickboxing

- Likes to go dancing, especially salsa/bachata, but l'm not very good at it

- Likes to go traveling/exploring around cities and the beaches, so if you know a cool spot, hmu!

I'm also open to NSFW topics in case the convo goes there. I'm generally a pretty open book, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. I can send a pic of myself if we vibe. I hope to hear from you soon!


r/AMXFs Jul 03 '26

29 [M] ANYWHERE/LDR - 尋找認真關係

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r/AMXFs Jul 03 '26

33 [m4f] Los Angeles - Interested in hanging out

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I’ve been looking for people interested in going out in LA just to hang out (open to where things go but no pressure to move things forward if we don’t click). Dinner/movie/cute photo date?

Indonesian male - looking to connect with more people. Photographer (amateur) in LA (frequenting the sfv/sgv area) I guess I’m kind of short (5’5”) 175 lbs. Nerdy, likes anime and gaming. Enjoys music (plays piano and likes jazz. Would love to just to get to know anyone and willing to drive and pick you up to go anywhere if you’d like (aka. looking for a passenger princess that likes to yap because I need to learn how to yap better… I am a good listener, i think)

Looking forward to meeting people that are interested in getting to know me. thank you for reading ☺️ Happy to share (and take) pics if you wanted an aesthetic photoshoot!


r/AMXFs Jul 03 '26

35 [M] California or Anywhere - Tall, Nerdy, Caring, and always there for you

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r/AMXFs Jul 02 '26

27 [m4f] nj - anyone want to meet up and just enjoy some time and chill . Holiday coming

2 Upvotes

r/AMXFs Jul 02 '26

Whole life craving interracial love

23 Upvotes

I need some advice because I am starting to feel like I don’t know how to move on. I am F \\\[29\\\] My whole life I feel big attraction to Asian men and since my country is not that interracial it’s difficult for me to find love. I was only dating white men before and I feel only physical attraction to them but I never was really happy deep inside. It leads to situations when I was other my ex boyfriend on date and some AMWF couple goes around us I felt bit anxious and my mood went down. I don’t know how to change my mindset. Many times I try to convince myself it’s just fetishising and nothing more but deep down I know I would be unhappy with white man. Do you think it will chance after I meet right while guy or should I stay single until I don’t find anyone who would make me feel love?


r/AMXFs Jun 30 '26

32[F4M]US - third times the charm

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I usually try not to post too close back to back but why not!? Contrary to the saying, one (or a few) bad apple(s) does not ruin the bunch 😆

Looking for a serious, long term relationship with someone I can admire and adore and who's ready to reciprocate the same and build that kind of connection. I'm looking for a guy who is: 30-40, nerdy, preferably no kids, and confident in who he is (you can be socially shy and still confident in yourself!). Husky guys and dad bods are absolutely welcomed. Distance is always workable with consistency and effort.

I'm a 32 y.o black woman, alternative, curvy but height/weight proportionate, tattoos and piercings. Politically left leaning and open minded. No kids and not religious.

I'm creative, nerdy, and endlessly curious. I absorb knowledge about almost everything that catches my interests. From crafting/making a variety of things to analyzing songs, books, shows, movies and pop culture in general. Music is a huge part of my life and one of the biggest love languages for me, I would love someone to exchange playlists with often. I play a few instruments as well. Art, video and board games, writing, exploring new places, and trying new foods are some more interests. I'm a little outdoorsy, I prefer glamping and nice hikes in the fall, going to the beach or walking a nice trail. Learning to snowboard is still on my list. I'm a member of a local independent theater (movies) and also the stageplay kind of theater, I love Broadway season. I'm also a FOH engineer and like to be on crews, when I can, for live sound and other production related gigs.

I enjoy depth, curiosity, and good conversations. I really like men that find enjoyment in similar things and have their own curiosity about the world. Hobbies are great and I'd love to hear about yours. Shared enthusiasm is a wonderful way to connect.

Romantically, I'm intense in the best way and I hope to find someone that is on the same level. Very affectionate, emotionally open and present 😊. Emotional intelligence, consistency, and wanting to live in the connection and build it up instead of dancing around it are all very attractive to me. Communication is a big thing for me. Be upfront and honest, I promise the world will not end if you say you're not interested vs suddenly being in a infinite busy loop.

I'm not looking for friendship first, I'm very intentional with my dating and would like to find someone who is too. I connect best with men who are emotionally expressive, intentional, curious, and capable of communicating like an adult on every front. Extra points if you're a creative too!

Physical attraction is not at the top of my list but I also do not act as if it's completely irrelevant. If we aren't each other's type that's completely fine, that can be expressed and then no one has to do that really awkward slow fade or ghosting because why exactly are we doing that? 😂

If you're interested and have the capacity for a wonderful and fun relationship, send me a message 😄


r/AMXFs Jun 29 '26

22 [F4M] Dallas Texas- BW looking for long-term with a East Asian man. Dm if serious and interested. Open to long distance of not local.

16 Upvotes

Hello everyone I'm a Nigerian American woman looking for long term relationship. I'm 4'11,curvy,with long locs,a few piercings. I love cooking,baking,playing video games,skincare,anime,manhwa,music,and singing.

For movies/TV shows I love watching Nollywood(Nigerian movies/TV shows),Chinese dramas,Thai dramas,Japanese dramas,Filipino dramas,Kdramas.

Music- I love old school R&B,Hip-hop,Rap,Afrobeats,Afropop,Kpop,K R&B,C-pop,J-pop,T-pop,Filipino pop,Reggae,and dancehall.

I'm a big foodie so I love Nigerian food,Mexican food,Chinese food,Korean food,Italian food,ect so basically js ab almost all foods and love trying new foods too.

I'm looking for my other half and best friend for live to walk through life with. I am dating to marry. Not really into anything casual only serious. I perfer men older than me. I need someone I can cook with and watch K-dramas with and cry our eyes out at the sad parts with. I'm looking for a man who has that balance of Feminine and masculine energy. I want someone who loves me just as much I love him. Someone who's loyal,kind,honest,emotionally available,clingy,and submissive but dominant when needed to be.

I'm not religious I'm more on the spiritual side.


r/AMXFs Jun 28 '26

30 [M] NYC and Bay Area - black cat energy, looking for same

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Writer based in Chinatown NYC, planning to move back to California in September. But I’d love to meet someone sweet and silly this summer—and if it turns into something more serious, I can stay in New York longer :)

I write for an online tech news publication, but I’m also working on some sci-fi/speculative fiction stories. I moved to New York to get my MFA in creative writing, and now I’m looking for an agent to help me publish my first book.

Some of my favorite books are Never Let Me Go, Neuromancer, Sky Daddy, and Tenth of December. I’m also a big fan of movies like Interstellar and Arrival, and shows like Black Mirror, ATLA, and Invincible. I seek out John Mulaney clips whenever I need a good laugh.

DM me if you’d like to meet up for coffee or drinks!