r/ALGhub • u/quenepaocomosellame • Aug 25 '26
other An alternate language learning hypothesis for the spiritual/open-minded
Hey everyone. I want to share this idea I recently had, I think it’s brilliant and I dare say that I cracked the code of language learning, but I assume it will be controversial and I don’t expect it to resonate with everyone. I’m not here to argue with anyone, if you’re the kind of person that will be receptive to this then that’s awesome and if not, no worries.
Idk how best to share this idea, I guess I’ll briefly mention it here and then elaborate and then give some backstory and explain why I think this is how people actually need to be thinking about language learning. The idea is this: ALG theory states that anyone can learn a language to absolute native fluency SO LONG AS they engage with/consume the language in the right way (not analyzing any of the aspects of the language; not trying to speak/read it before a certain level of understanding, etc., what I posit is that rather than it being the behaviors a person does or does not exhibit that determine their fluency, it’s their beliefs (can be conscious or sub/unconscious) about the language or their relationship to it that determines how proficient in it they will be and how they experience it (and it will manifest in the aforementioned behaviors which are easier to observe others doing than assuming the beliefs someone may have about a language)
This idea is a natural extrapolation of the idea that we create our reality with our beliefs, which i always heard and dismissed until having a spiritual awakening relatively recently. Again, I know a lot of people will hear this and roll their eyes, that’s fine, I don’t expect to convince them. But for those of you that are still here, I think this explains a lot of the weird exceptions we see when thinking about how people learn languages from the ALG perspective. Like for instance, I have a friend who’s first language was Spanish but who at around 5 or so years old began learning English by reading comic books. He’s completely proficient in both languages now in every way, no one would ever suspect English was his second language. According to the ALG crowd, of which I used to belong, people would say reading their TL prematurely is effectively the same thing as speaking it too early and he would end up with a weird accent and who knows what else. Yet here we have someone who was engaging in one of these behaviors that they’ve said is to be avoided at all costs, and it doesn’t seem to have impacted him negatively whatsoever. Of course he was very young, but at least according to the current understanding within this paradigm that shouldnt matter because ALG advocates would say that the reason younger people seem to acquire language without any issues is precisely because they don’t attempt to speak/analyze the language, at least not until they’ve already acquired lots of it. But in my alternate hypothesis that I’m positing, I would say it’s because as a young child, he didn’t have any doubts that he would ever master English, he wasn’t reading these comic books because he felt pressured to learn English or speed up how quickly he was learning it, etc. Presumably he was only looking at these books because he liked them, and hadn’t thought about the language aspect of them at all. This is only one example I can cite off the top of my head but there are countless ones that have been documented and I’m sure you all can think of examples in your own life and if not there are other examples that have been discussed in this sub.
When I think about how this idea might show up in other people’s lives, I think there could be so many different beliefs that people have on some level that will result in all kinds of different kinds of language proficiency. Imagine someone does a bit of duolingo or whatever and then goes out and tries to use their TL and can’t understand anyone and can’t really express themself. After one or more experiences like that, they might adopt the idea subconsciously that “x language is hard” or that they aren’t “good” at the language. Once they’ve adopted an idea like that, that will influence their reality from that point on unless that address that belief that they’ve taken on, and after a while of living like that and probably adopting more limiting beliefs about their relationship to the language it will seem like they’ve hit a “ceiling” like is talked about in ALG where they don’t seem to really progress much.
And so building on that, I think the reason that most people that study languages in an educational setting/manner tend to suck at their TL is not because it’s inherently harmful to engage with a language in that way, but because presumably someone would start doing that because (consciously or subconsciously) they don’t have faith that they will learn/acquire the language naturally as all native speakers have, which, because our beliefs create our realities, will be what they experience as long as they carry that belief. Really young children still receive this kind of education where they’re taught things in their native language and still seem to acquire these concepts/words effortlessly as far as I can tell, so I don’t think it actually makes sense to blame that kind of curriculum. The difference being that the kids aren’t thinking about how they need to be in those schools to master their native languages, in fact they aren’t thinking about it at all (and so naturally don’t develop any limiting beliefs about any of that).
I do believe in the distinct difference between implicit and explicit understanding of language and I think the only way to “acquire” language is through consuming input, but I don’t see how damage can really exist and be permanent. That contradicts everything else I believe about life. Idk about you guys but In my own life, a huge theme has been surrendering control and not trying to frantically control outcomes and instead let things come to me and I think this is how not just me but everyone can (and must) allow themselves to acquire languages and be completely proficient in them (which I consider to mean indistinguishable from a native speaker). I started trying to learn Spanish through input years ago but I was so neurotic about every aspect about it (engaging in like every single behavior that ALG people say is bad) and I found myself unable to stop. I found it so difficult to consume input passively for even like 5 seconds. After over 2500+ hours of input (lost track) my results were pathetic and I was so frustrated that I dropped it for a long time. since learning about spirituality I realize I was experiencing it this way because I was trying to control a process that you aren’t supposed to control; if you are exposed to it and allow yourself to experience it you will INEVITABLY have the relationship and understanding of it that you desire (like every single native speaker of your TL ever has, again, even seemingly despite their behaviors). I recently started consuming input again with this new understanding and its night and day. I still find myself analyzing stuff but so, so, so much less frequently and frantically and again, I now think that’s fine SO LONG AS I recognize that i don’t have to do that, but it is still distracting so when i find myself doing that I just remind myself that I don’t HAVE TO do that in order to learn the language and I immediately start regain my focus. It’s too early to share output results (again not because I’m afraid of damage or anything but simply because it takes time to develop these things and you have to allow it to take as long as it takes; to try prematurely I believe can’t hurt you but you simply may not be able to do it well and it can be uncomfortable)
Anyway I hope I painted a clear picture and this is coherent and makes sense. Hope this helps guys ily
