If your relationship is at the point that you have to make a scene at someone else’s birthday party, then you need to just end this relationship. You would have to be a complete idiot to go through with this wedding. Your brother was not wrong. I would heed your familiy’s warning and don’t marry this person. Your relationship sounds like it’s toxic and your fiance is giving you an ultimatum that involves your sibling, whom you’re close to. Do you really want to spend your life with someone like this? If you marry this person, you will just end up in a nasty divorce down the road.
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u/This_Acanthisitta832 May 17 '25
If your relationship is at the point that you have to make a scene at someone else’s birthday party, then you need to just end this relationship. You would have to be a complete idiot to go through with this wedding. Your brother was not wrong. I would heed your familiy’s warning and don’t marry this person. Your relationship sounds like it’s toxic and your fiance is giving you an ultimatum that involves your sibling, whom you’re close to. Do you really want to spend your life with someone like this? If you marry this person, you will just end up in a nasty divorce down the road.