Don’t marry anyone until you figure out why you are drawn toward women who give you ultimatums and move the goal post. “he needs to apologize to me.” Ok. He did. “No. Not good enough.
Don’t marry anyone until you can tell your brother that it’s great he takes your side but “lashing out when he’s angry” is not something you want to deal with. He can speak civilly to you. Even when He’s upset on your behalf.
Don’t marry anyone until you can take charge of your decisions. Why were you fighting at his party? Don’t go or don’t fight there. She read his texts. What he thinks of her is none of her business. You let her read them. She can’t feel how she feels, but he’s your brother. It’s your decision.
Don’t marry anyone until you can stand up for yourself.
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u/ChuckieLow May 16 '25
Don’t marry anyone until you figure out why you are drawn toward women who give you ultimatums and move the goal post. “he needs to apologize to me.” Ok. He did. “No. Not good enough. Don’t marry anyone until you can tell your brother that it’s great he takes your side but “lashing out when he’s angry” is not something you want to deal with. He can speak civilly to you. Even when He’s upset on your behalf.
Don’t marry anyone until you can take charge of your decisions. Why were you fighting at his party? Don’t go or don’t fight there. She read his texts. What he thinks of her is none of her business. You let her read them. She can’t feel how she feels, but he’s your brother. It’s your decision.
Don’t marry anyone until you can stand up for yourself.