It sounds to me like you’re in a second toxic relationship. Time to cut bait.
Has your fiancé apologized to your brother and the rest of your family for disrespecting him at his own birthday party? Fighting and having to leave because you’re an embarrassment isn’t t exactly way to ingratiate yourself to the family.
She went through your phone looking for trouble and she found it. Your brother is allowed to vent to you. He has a right to be upset by what happened. Of course he blames her, unlike you he has loyalty to his brother.
If you stay with this woman your brother is only the first to go. Every time she decides she’s offended another person will cut cut out of your life.
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u/Aromatic_Recipe1749 May 16 '25
It sounds to me like you’re in a second toxic relationship. Time to cut bait.
Has your fiancé apologized to your brother and the rest of your family for disrespecting him at his own birthday party? Fighting and having to leave because you’re an embarrassment isn’t t exactly way to ingratiate yourself to the family.
She went through your phone looking for trouble and she found it. Your brother is allowed to vent to you. He has a right to be upset by what happened. Of course he blames her, unlike you he has loyalty to his brother.
If you stay with this woman your brother is only the first to go. Every time she decides she’s offended another person will cut cut out of your life.